sugarb
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Re: Hee Hee
05/02/05 06:22 PM
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"BF invited her to my home I own without discussing it with me first for 10 weeks. He expects me to watch her while he is at work because I am off for the summer."
"When she called me names, her father said I was misunderstanding her."
"He basically feels guilty because she was an unwanted "oops" with a short term GF whom he dated on the rebound."
"What gets me angry is that he can't afford to pay CS and pay for her food etc when she visits so I get stuck paying for their food, entertainment, etc or we don't do anything."
"To this day her father still has never talked to her about her behavior and that she needs to be nice to people. When he and I got in an argument about her behavior, he told her that she didn't do anything wrong that everything was HIS fault!! I see the situation as hopeless unless he is willing to get over the guilt trip and discipline her."
"I can't go through that agony again."
"She is immature and says things to child that her hurt just to get back at father for leaving her. He left when she was a couple months old. Mother yells and curses at father on phone in front of child. Mother pawns child off on whoever will take her, but insists on keeping the CS for herself-even if child is away for months."
"The BM is trailer trash-had a child to collect CS and live on govt asst."
"I guess they figure he isn't responsible enough(he admits that he avoids responsibility), so they want to put it on me. BF was on drugs/alcohol when 12 yo was conceived and has made bad choices in his life."
These comments combined give me the impression that you do not respect the man and it sounds like an episode of JS. I guess my post was more a question than a slam. The fact that you have resorted to personal insults in your response reinforced my image of the Jerry Springer lifestyle. That's what most of the "actors" resort to as well. Personal insults. I am quite aware this is scripted, but just as you said, some people do live it. It's your choice. Do you want to live it? Is it worth it? Based on your own comment, "Living In Agony", I cannot imagine choosing this path. I was a step parent myself, I have walked 9 years inthose shoes, and I "lived it", until HE chose to leave with the flavor of the month. It was the best thing that could have happen to me!
You asked for advice. Take it if you wish.
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