
Karen1
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Reged: 06/02/05
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Re: Ways to Take a Mental Vacation From Divorce He
06/05/05 10:27 PM
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I do the solitaire card game on computer also. In about 3 weeks it will be 3 years since mr. stbx left. Tried to do as dissolution for 20 months, then filed for divofce. on 9-25-04 I took my son and his fiancee to see Phil Collins in concert. Although I like Phil's style, my son, age 26, is the big fan. I very miraculous (to me) thing happened. For the length of the concert, 2.5 hours, I did not think of anything divorce or Mr. stbx related and that was the longest Ihad gone without doing so. I don't think it has happened again since, but I still remember how wonderful it was. Mr stbx and I were together for 30 years. I was married before mr stbx, back in 68 and divorced in 69... very simple divorce, no assets. While I am most glad the assets are there now, it is not a simple divorce. But hopefully it will be final by July 11. Some people just seem to think the ex has no right to anything and drag things out.
I have worked since I was 16 with the except of 2 years. I find one thing that helps me is to have a project, the bigger the better, to work on while at work. Something I can do from start to finish. Right now, seeing anything finished is good for me. Often the brain is not quiet, continual thinking. Divorce thoughts can consume a person all of our waking hours and it is a struggle for many of to not allow that to happen. Karen
-------------------- "Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened".
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