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kav
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Re: I am lost - while wife wants divorce...

09/16/06 08:20 AM

Hi Mac

I'm so sorry that you ended up here. But if you have to go through a divorce this is the place to be.

I went through hell and back only to return to sanity with the help of everyone on here. This will probably be the hardest thing you will ever have to go through and it's not easy in the beginning. You'll ride a rollercoaster of emotions but you will survive!!! You'll come out of this a stronger person. There is life after divorce believe it or not.

Being married as long as you have been, you feel like you lost your whole world...everything that you have ever known or lived is gone...that's not the case, it just feels that way now.

It is ok to mourn the death of a marriage. I have to disagree with "yregna", the best way to start moving forward is to live apart. As long as the two of you are together you can't move on and it will be really hard on you. I didn't believe that in the beginning...but it's true...I thought "weaning" myself out of my ex's life was making it easy for me but in the long run it only held me in limbo. The really tough part for you is the fact you two work together and have to see each other on a daily basis. I believe I speak for a lot of us when I say that going to work and shifting the concentration to a different area certainly helped.

As others have said, you do need to protect your assets but that comes down the road when you hit the divorce stage. Whether you live in the house or not doesn't mean you will lose it.

I feel for you and I hate seeing anyone go through this. To me it is such an unfair heartbreak but it seems to be a way of life today...marriage then divorce......

Big hugs to you!!!! You will survive!!! It takes "time" (theres a word I have learned to hate)

Kim

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Yesterday I dared to struggle. Today I dare to win.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
I am lost - while wife wants divorce...	mac2	09/15/06 01:33 PM
Re: I am lost - while wife wants divorce...	ByHisGrace	09/17/06 08:24 PM
Re: I am lost - while wife wants divorce...	kav	09/16/06 08:20 AM
Re: I am lost - while wife wants divorce...	ImBetterNow	09/26/06 09:51 PM
Re: I am lost - while wife wants divorce...	yregna	09/15/06 05:30 PM
Re: I am lost - while wife wants divorce...	Debi	09/15/06 06:49 PM
So that's your problem...	Curmudgeon	09/15/06 05:50 PM
Re: So that's your problem...	CaymanCanuck	09/15/06 06:36 PM
Re: So that's your problem...	CaymanCanuck	09/15/06 06:49 PM
Re: I am lost - while wife wants divorce...	yregna	09/15/06 05:16 PM
Re: I am lost - while wife wants divorce...	Annie7676	09/15/06 03:42 PM
Re: I am lost - while wife wants divorce...	mtdew	09/15/06 04:35 PM

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