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Re: beenthere
      10/12/06 08:00 PM

First I respectfully disagree. I don't feel I have read way too much into the responses I received. And the last 12 years have not made me paranoid just quite a bit wiser. I am not bitter either. If my ex had not continually forced issues into court before judge after judge after judge, the status quo would have remained and he would have been quite well off receiving 100% disability, retirement and a lucrative position with a well know aeronautics [censored] and myself receiving zero.
I moved on with my life long ago.
Second thank you for the compliment but I don't see myself as being well spoken. When you first replied, I thought I had found someone who might find my particular situation helpful. But then when you joined ranks with one of the other posters while I was trying to feel out this site I was a bit taken aback. It is quite refreshing to know that there is one out there who has not seen a liar or cheat defended. My case is full of that type of thing. As a matter of fact my last attorney advised me that and I quote "the law has little to do with truth" and he is oh so right.
You are quite well spoken yourself and from what I am seeing perhaps more educated in the area of military divorce than others I have seen. I felt like you were just the type of person I was hoping to reach. A few of my very good friends have been devastated financially due to the CR debacle. These are spouses (male and female) who served their ex's well. Raised families, moved countless times, unable to obtain employment that afforded a retirement because things were very different then than they are now.We all worked, and most of us on base in federal capacity but never could hold a FT position and keep a family together as well. There is a military spouse support system now that did not exist then. It is not by accident. In the future, this will not be a problem for the FS or the retiree. They are being supported and given opportunities not present not so long ago.
I am afraid I allowed the attitude on this board to cause me to behave in a manner I abhor. That is why I have decided to take my help elsewhere. And I am not a communist as was so hinted at. Quite the contrary. I am willing to venture you are a fairly young woman by the way you see things. Am I correct in that assumption? I hope to encounter another like you in the future that would benefit from my life events.
Thank you for your kind send off.

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Illegitimi non carborundum.
"Even truth in the mouth of a liar is doubtful."

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* Retirement waived for disability post divorce beenthere 10/11/06 04:00 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for disability post divorce Miranda   10/11/06 04:53 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for disability post divorce beenthere   10/11/06 05:56 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for disability post divorce Miranda   10/12/06 08:29 AM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for disability post divorce elliesmom   10/11/06 07:25 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree beenthere   10/11/06 08:36 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree Miranda   10/12/06 08:33 AM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* beenthere   10/12/06 09:28 AM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* Miranda   10/12/06 11:49 AM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* beenthere   10/12/06 12:08 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* elliesmom   10/12/06 12:33 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* beenthere   10/12/06 12:54 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* Miranda   10/12/06 12:54 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* beenthere   10/12/06 01:10 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* elliesmom   10/12/06 02:45 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* Lucy44   10/12/06 03:37 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* beenthere   10/12/06 07:23 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* beenthere   10/12/06 05:47 PM
. * * Please tell me, oh enlightened one. Lucy44   10/12/06 06:21 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* beenthere   10/12/06 03:12 PM
. * * beenthere Lucy44   10/12/06 03:48 PM
. * * Re: beenthere beenthere   10/12/06 04:26 PM
. * * Re: beenthere Redlegg   10/12/06 05:16 PM
. * * Re: beenthere beenthere   10/12/06 05:40 PM
. * * Re: beenthere Rebecca5   10/12/06 05:50 PM
. * * Re: beenthere beenthere   10/12/06 08:00 PM
. * * Re: beenthere elliesmom   10/12/06 05:50 PM
. * * Re: beenthere Lucy44   10/12/06 05:08 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* Miranda   10/12/06 01:19 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* beenthere   10/12/06 01:39 PM
. * * Banter... Miranda   10/12/06 01:46 PM
. * * Re: Banter... elliesmom   10/12/06 02:31 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* Rebecca5   10/12/06 01:31 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree *DELETED* Miranda   10/12/06 01:36 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree Miranda   10/12/06 09:43 AM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree Redlegg   10/12/06 01:23 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree beenthere   10/12/06 02:29 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree beenthere   10/12/06 10:19 AM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree Rebecca5   10/12/06 11:02 AM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree beenthere   10/12/06 11:10 AM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree Rebecca5   10/12/06 11:28 AM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for CRDP/CRSC post final decree beenthere   10/12/06 12:03 PM
. * * Re: Retirement waived for disability post divorce Miranda   10/11/06 04:47 PM

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