sfferguson
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Re: update
10/13/06 05:59 PM
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He is stationed at Wright Pat in ohio and I have come to find out I am not the only military wife here dealing with issues as well. He is in the Air Force I found out about how I can't file for divorce unless my husband gets that paper work for my layer as my lawyer told me today.
As far as you saying "it may not have been illegal, unless he used it as a reason to take emergency leave or to secure" funds for travel
That's my point he did just that he took emergency leave for these supposed dying family members as well as even today I can't touch our bank account because of the over draft. This guy has cost thousands of dollars in issues here. In the meantime it's like uh I am supposed to do what here you know.
And you said "You need to call the inspector general and let them know that you are not being supported, you need to talk to JAG and ask the question, what is he legally responsible for paying you until the divorce is final".
The lady told me which my lawyer was like what? when I called and told him what she said, "the lady from air force family advocacy" on base told me to sum it up my husband does not have to do anything it's up to his commander what he thinks and so forth.
And this women told me it would not be a bad idea to drop the civil protection order against him and see if he would meet about getting a divorce.
uh no one I have talked to from both my lawyers and the county agree with that at all. This is how I feel ignored and it's like ok I don't know where I am at with this but as of right now my hands are tied.
We live off base he has been doing this for months off and on but still hello this guy can not drain my bank account into over draft steal stuff from me pawn my wedding rings and misuse my child support checks the way this guy did. and have himself another bank account where it's not in overdraft and he is getting his checks. and I can't do anything because I am stuck with this over draft and all our bills. From what I gather from family advocacy is as far as him living with me and everything and not paying anything and doing all this I have to sue him for all that back money.
But ok what about the "right now" My poor lawyer this man has been trying to see who is "head" of these people and take it from there.
I have a case worker trying to help me 2 counties 2 lawyers and nothing is getting done. People now are starting to get upset as well as myself.
My lawyer said a week from today if we don't get anywhere with this we need to start looking into other legal action. I don't know what that means but at this point I can only trust these people who have been trying so hard to help me I have never been in such of a stress mess in my life.
I can't even file for any assistance because I am still very much married I do not qual I already tried. So I am so stuck between a rock and a hard place it's not even funny.
So I guess I'm like the rest of the military wives around here who are kind of in the same boat I am some with children who has had no help from commander and family advocacy.
Honestly I am with alot of people on this why is this going on and why is something not being done about what is going on here down at Wright Pat.
I know my lawyer is going to be asking those questions here soon and I tried everything I can and when you get no help from anyone there your just screwed.
My electric bill is due and 3 joint bills me and my husband has is do on sat tomr and I guess I just go tell them sry I have no way to pay you and see if I can get maybe an extention to pay it late or something.
I don't care if I work 50 hours a week right now I can not catch up on all this. Because with where me and my husband lives everything was already past due anyhow because of all this the "dying family members".
I'm lucky enough I don't have cc debt or any kind of debt like that.
All I have is the debt from where we live and a few things me and my husband has together.
So I guess I have at this point no choice but to just pack me and my daughter up and go stay at a shelter or something until housing that I have applied for comes availible.
Just try to work more hours and try to pay off everything he has done.
I contacted the state of ohio he owes back taxes I gave them his work number so they can contact my husband there.
as far as the other bill collecters that are calling for him I just tell I don't know what to tell you here is his number good luck.
I honestly hope my husband is proud of himself over this to have money loaned to him from people we know and to use all his paychecks for 4 months and causing over drafts in are account. All because he has this so called "3 dying family members" The whole time he has been bar hoping and meeting girls online and so forth.
I'm just sick of this whole ordeal the girl is out right now but another military wife who was homeless with her child because of somewhat of the same boat I am in but dif she never got no where she never got one cent for her or their child. She was living in the domestic V shelter in the couty she moved last week but it took alot of people to help her out.
I'm not only mad about all this but my heart really goes out to some of these wives who are going through a nightmare because of their husbands here in ohio.
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