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gari1
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Re: Its Back....AGAIN!

06/15/05 02:08 PM

You do sound mad which is something that you will have to get over with someday IF you ARE going to get on with your life. You just can't let everything the X does make you angry if you really intend to move forward. Remember sometimes there is no rhyme or reason as to what and why they do things. Many of them are living in a make believe world anyway.

Having said that, I have a very strict no contact rule in regards to my X. I will not return any of his phone calls, etc no matter what and not just because he walked out for OW. He knows NO boundaries. He follows and watches me constantly. He still continues to pump our grown children for info (which BTW does him no good). When he discovered that I was seeing someone he dug into his past, contacted his X by mail and in person, badmouthed him to my son, etc. He STILL sends anonymous gifts to my home (we have been divorced 2 years now). His only reason for ever wanting to call is to get a foot in...for whatever reason. He continues to try while also continuing to fail at each attempt. Oh, did I mention that he is also married. He married the OW 3 months after divorce was final (we were married 27 years).

In a situation like mine I think there are good reasons not to return a call but every situation is different. You have to go with your gut feeling but please don't let it consume you. Life really is too short for that and there are so many better things that you should spend your energy on.

Take care,

Gari

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Its Back....AGAIN!	pclif	06/15/05 10:44 AM
Re: Its Back....AGAIN!	mlh53	06/16/05 08:17 AM
Re: Its Back....AGAIN!	hey_its_me	06/15/05 02:24 PM
Re: Its Back....AGAIN!	gari1	06/15/05 11:22 AM
Re: Its Back....AGAIN!	Terri1	06/15/05 01:07 PM
Re: Its Back....AGAIN!	pclif	06/15/05 01:29 PM
Re: Its Back....AGAIN!	gari1	06/15/05 02:08 PM
Re: Its Back....AGAIN!	Terri1	06/15/05 01:59 PM

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