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royce
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Re: Is it possible to love him again?

11/11/06 06:07 PM

Are you still living together?...if so then i would think that it is only a matter of time before he lashes out at you again unless he is getting some real help with HIS problems.I hasten to add that most therapies just don't cut it when it comes to "Family Violence" and as you say the drinking has not ceased.(and you may still be at risk of injury).In my opinion,while you both can blame "the drink" no real progress will be made.Unerlying his "self medication" (i.e drinking) are some very serious emotional problems. Counseling for you yourself would better take place in a DV support group atmosphere.In regards to your question as to whether you can "love him again" that is something you have to find out for yourself.You will need to some real soul searching.Can you forgive him whilst still holding him responsible for his actions and insisting that if and until such time real progress is made that the relationship is on hold?.If he were to succeed in turning his life around then i would think that maybe the "attraction" could grow.

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Is it possible to love him again?	Fab	11/08/06 01:51 PM
Re: Is it possible to love him again?	shohn	11/25/06 10:11 AM
Re: Is it possible to love him again?	Fab	01/20/07 09:59 AM
Re: Is it possible to love him again?	Fab	01/20/07 10:02 AM
Re: Is it possible to love him again?	Avaya	02/28/07 09:55 AM
Re: Is it possible to love him again?	Fab	02/28/07 10:45 AM
Re: Is it possible to love him again?	GeorgiaPeach	02/09/07 03:06 PM
Re: Is it possible to love him again?	Fab	02/20/07 08:28 AM
Re: Is it possible to love him again?	royce	01/20/07 10:42 AM
Re: Is it possible to love him again?	Fab	01/26/07 08:32 AM
Re: Is it possible to love him again?	royce	11/08/06 03:14 PM
Re: Is it possible to love him again?	Fab	11/08/06 04:44 PM
Re: Is it possible to love him again?	Maury	11/09/06 11:08 PM
Re: Is it possible to love him again?	Fab	11/10/06 08:01 AM
Re: Is it possible to love him again?	royce	11/11/06 06:07 PM
Re: Buy this book	liftnbhappy	11/13/06 12:42 PM

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