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What is best for the children?
      12/10/06 12:01 AM

How do I know what is best for my 2 boys ages 3 and 6? I have been with my husband my entire adult life (16 years), and I don't know the answers. I have seen families torn apart by divorce, but I hate to see my boys torn apart by living in an unhappy family. My husband and I used to have fun together but he has turned into a manic depressive, insecure, unhappy man. I had an affair 1 1/2 years ago, but he held on tighter, not wanting to let me go. We fight every day. He has unintentionally caused us to be broke, and possibly losing our house. I cannot work and pay child care in the town that we live in, but have been offered a place to live on the Jersey Shore where this may be possible. I love him, but can't stand his misery, and am worried that it is turning our boys into something that I don't want them to be. How do I let go of the man I love for the sake of his children? Any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks,

E.

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* What is best for the children? littleE 12/10/06 12:01 AM
. * * Re: What is best for the children? bkgirl   03/15/07 03:10 PM
. * * Sure... gr8Dad   12/10/06 04:33 AM
. * * Stop being so bitter - isn't this a SUPPORT group? littleE   12/11/06 11:41 AM
. * * Aw, you were LONELY... gr8Dad   12/11/06 12:25 PM
. * * Re: Aw, you were LONELY... Curmudgeon   12/11/06 10:25 PM
. * * Wrong... gr8Dad   12/12/06 12:25 AM
. * * Re: Wrong... madalex   03/16/07 09:56 AM
. * * Re: Wrong... Summer896   12/12/06 01:52 AM
. * * Re: Wrong... thisaintBB   12/12/06 04:18 AM
. * * Re: Wrong... Summer896   12/12/06 11:31 AM
. * * Re: Wrong... Maury   12/14/06 11:37 PM
. * * Hold on a sec... gr8Dad   12/12/06 01:55 AM
. * * Re: Hold on a sec... Summer896   12/12/06 01:56 AM
. * * Re: Stop being so bitter - isn't this a SUPPORT group? Buckeye   12/11/06 11:46 AM
. * * Re: Stop being so bitter - isn't this a SUPPORT group? littleE   12/11/06 11:54 AM
. * * Re: What is best for the children? Buckeye   12/10/06 01:37 AM

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