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Re: not bouncing back
      12/18/06 06:42 PM

You're making perfect sense, and I think those feelings are normal. I think its a woman thing where we have to grieve a relationship and feel the pain in order to be truly over it. Men aren't wired that way it seems. They cut off emotionally and just move forward when they choose to end a relationship. Its like they figure if they feel any pain over losing it, then they're not macho enough, or maybe its the wrong decision. At least thats my experience with the men that have been in my life - not a weeper or self-healing one in the bunch.

Maybe there isn't a woman living there, maybe there is. But if there is, its not going to last. How many relationships with OW/OM actually become 'forever' relationships? Not many. He's moved too quick and once the bloom is off he'll be unhappy again.

There's an old saying: Women renew, Men replace. You're going to heal from this, and he's going to spin his wheels. Wait and see....

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* not bouncing back thisaintBB 12/18/06 05:37 PM
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