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almostheaven
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You are still stereotyping...

12/20/06 01:56 PM

No, this is NOT one of the biggest reasons men disappear. Most of the ones I know of took off BEFORE a divorce was even in the works...my ex, my friend's ex, my aunt's ex, etc. etc. You're ASSUMING that most men take off because of this. So...how many men do you know that have been thrown in jail for no reason? I'm assuming this is not a normal case??? Or do you run accross this daily? If not, then where are you getting this is the reason most disappear?

He isn't being held unjustly because she's a woman or because the system discriminates against him. But because she has a foot into the legal system he does not. Just as I mentioned the problem Chrystal Brames faced. Her husband had a foot into the legal system and she did not. Unless most women have ties in the legal system, they're not going to be able to do this to their exes, and therefore the "reason most men disappear" line doesn't hold true.

You can make it the only time you'll respond if you choose, but I call it stereotyping, then burrying your head in the sand claiming that's not what you're doing. I'll let others decide whether they think you were or not on their own. I've simply pointed out that it's what you're doing and shown where you're doing it. It's up to you to ignore it and do it more, or to not.

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Char Fox

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Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 04:50 AM
Can I please suggest paragraphs?	Melody	12/20/06 11:50 AM
Re: Can I please suggest paragraphs?	Debbie_L	12/20/06 03:59 PM
Re: Can I please suggest paragraphs?	all2u	12/21/06 08:15 AM
Re: Can I please suggest paragraphs?	almostheaven	12/21/06 09:46 AM
Yeah.....	Melody	12/21/06 12:23 PM
Re: Yeah.....	all2u	12/21/06 01:13 PM
You came here	Melody	12/21/06 03:42 PM
Re: Yeah.....	Arden	12/21/06 02:56 PM
Re: Yeah.....	all2u	12/21/06 04:47 PM
Re: Yeah.....	almostheaven	12/21/06 05:25 PM
Re: Yeah.....	all2u	12/21/06 01:21 PM
Maybe you don't understand...	almostheaven	12/21/06 01:46 PM
Re: Yeah.....	Gecko	12/21/06 01:39 PM
Re: Yeah.....	almostheaven	12/21/06 01:47 PM
Re: Above the law	Gecko	12/20/06 11:25 AM
Re: Above the law	almostheaven	12/20/06 08:53 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 09:16 AM
You are still stereotyping...	almostheaven	12/20/06 01:56 PM
Re: Above the law	Buckeye	12/20/06 05:04 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 05:09 AM
Re: Above the law	M5M5	12/20/06 05:17 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 05:38 AM
Re: Above the law	Buckeye	12/20/06 05:40 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 05:54 AM
Re: Above the law	Buckeye	12/20/06 05:59 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 06:05 AM
Re: Above the law	Buckeye	12/20/06 06:12 AM
Re: Above the law	M5M5	12/20/06 06:09 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 08:35 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 06:17 AM
Re: Above the law	M5M5	12/20/06 06:18 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 06:44 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 06:48 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 06:50 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 06:55 AM
Re: Above the law	M5M5	12/20/06 06:58 AM
Re: Above the law	Arden	12/20/06 07:09 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 07:10 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 07:11 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 07:18 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 07:20 AM
Re: Above the law	Arden	12/20/06 07:32 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 07:46 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 08:32 AM
Re: Above the law	Arden	12/20/06 09:07 AM
Re: Above the law	all2u	12/20/06 07:07 AM
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