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Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody

12/29/06 05:38 AM

Okay, unfortuneately I have been there, done that. With one of my custodial stepkids. Age difference was a bit more, like 12 to a 5 year old and a toddler. He did it b/c me and my kids came into the picture. He knew that he couldn't hurt me so he hurt my kids. He was turned in to the authorities by his legal father (my husband is not his legally).

I suggest you find the laws in your state that pertains to Juvenile delequents. Know them.

If he is being charged and convicted as an adult, make sure he is truely. We were told in our case, SS was being tried and convicted as an adult. Come to find out, years later, he was sent to foster homes, not a "juvenile jail" which is where he should have gone if tried as an adult.

The state never notified DH or the Biomom of anything. And, to be honest, DH was and still is so angry he didn't want anything more to do with him. The severity of what he did and why...

Well, that offender is legal age and now, after 7 years, the state sent my husband a bill for services. Over 100k!
Well, we are fighting it and hired our attorney on this. You see, first off in our case, the NEVER notified the biomother (she has been out of the boy's life for 2 years prior to this incident), she is not listed on the documents as she should be as it is required by LAW to have both parents. Secondly, DH is considered a victim too and they can't come after the victim for the money. And thirdly, they should have filed when thsi all began (according to the law). They do the child support forms where BOTH parents income are taken into consideration and they find out what each parent's obligation is, and that is how they pay and what amount they can afford. Also, they could have taken support that DH was receiving for the boys. But, apparently since it was worded and an agreed amount of $60 per week for support, and not an individual amount for each, they couldn't get it.

So, again, find your laws. Also, there should be victim rights groups , ask for them and talk to them. Still, read the laws...

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Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/28/06 09:58 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Gecko	12/29/06 10:45 AM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 01:56 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Gecko	12/29/06 05:33 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 05:47 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	jsp	12/29/06 05:58 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 07:19 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Maury	12/29/06 06:39 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	jsp	12/29/06 06:53 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	tsl	12/30/06 05:48 AM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Maury	12/29/06 06:57 PM
I think where I decided enough...	gr8Dad	12/29/06 10:20 PM
Re: I think where I decided enough...	Christine71	12/29/06 10:26 PM
Kinda tought to DO anything...	gr8Dad	12/29/06 10:26 PM
Re: Kinda tought to DO anything...	Christine71	12/29/06 10:30 PM
Pick a story line...	gr8Dad	12/29/06 10:45 PM
Re: Pick a story line...	Christine71	12/29/06 10:56 PM
Re: Pick a story line...	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 11:34 PM
Re: Pick a story line...	Christine71	12/30/06 10:26 AM
Re: Pick a story line...	tsl	12/30/06 11:41 AM
Re: Pick a story line...	Christine71	12/30/06 12:38 PM
Re: Pick a story line...	jsp	12/30/06 12:59 PM
Re: Pick a story line...	Rebecca5	12/29/06 11:53 PM
Re: Pick a story line...	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 10:49 PM
Re: Kinda tought to DO anything...	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 10:37 PM
Re: Kinda tought to DO anything...	Christine71	12/29/06 10:41 PM
Re: Kinda tought to DO anything...	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 10:46 PM
Re: Kinda tought to DO anything...	Christine71	12/29/06 10:36 PM
Re: Kinda tought to DO anything...	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 10:39 PM
Re: Kinda tought to DO anything...	Christine71	12/29/06 10:46 PM
Think about that...	gr8Dad	12/29/06 10:48 PM
Re: Think about that...	Christine71	12/29/06 11:00 PM
Re: Think about that...	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 11:18 PM
Re: Think about that...	Christine71	12/30/06 10:19 AM
Re: Think about that...	Renee	12/30/06 01:24 AM
Re: Think about that...	Rebecca5	12/29/06 11:44 PM
Re: Think about that...	Runswithscissors	12/30/06 07:26 AM
Re: Think about that...	Christine71	12/30/06 10:46 AM
Re: Think about that...	Runswithscissors	12/30/06 11:41 AM
Re: Think about that...	Christine71	12/30/06 12:21 PM
Re: Think about that...	onerose	12/30/06 07:14 PM
Re: Think about that...	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 10:51 PM
Re: Think about that...	Christine71	12/29/06 10:58 PM
You think I am?	gr8Dad	12/29/06 10:54 PM
Re: I think where I decided enough...	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 10:23 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	jsp	12/29/06 07:12 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Maury	12/29/06 07:14 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	jsp	12/29/06 07:19 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	jsp	12/29/06 07:33 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Maury	12/29/06 07:37 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 07:39 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Maury	12/29/06 07:24 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 11:03 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 11:06 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 11:22 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 07:37 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Rebecca5	12/29/06 08:27 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 08:47 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	jsp	12/29/06 09:15 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 09:54 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Rebecca5	12/29/06 09:45 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 09:50 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	rocketgirl	12/29/06 09:52 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 09:58 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 10:02 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Rebecca5	12/29/06 10:08 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 10:04 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 09:56 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 10:01 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 10:11 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 10:20 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	jsp	12/29/06 09:18 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 09:40 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 09:44 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Rebecca5	12/29/06 09:05 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 09:40 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 09:14 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Maury	12/29/06 07:39 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	jsp	12/29/06 07:35 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 07:43 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Maury	12/29/06 07:46 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	jsp	12/29/06 08:16 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Maury	12/29/06 08:21 PM
Let me see if I understand this...	gr8Dad	12/29/06 02:06 PM
Re: Let me see if I understand this...	Christine71	12/29/06 02:27 PM
What about the tax deduction?	matilda	12/29/06 11:25 AM
Re: What about the tax deduction?	Gecko	12/29/06 11:32 AM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Rebecca5	12/29/06 09:13 AM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 09:39 AM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Rebecca5	12/29/06 10:04 AM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 10:26 AM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	agui667	12/29/06 11:53 AM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 01:47 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Susanf31	12/29/06 01:58 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 02:11 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	F25Divorced	12/29/06 02:25 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 02:36 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	agui667	12/29/06 02:39 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 03:03 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	agui667	12/29/06 03:11 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/29/06 03:19 PM
Can you even SEE your denial?	gr8Dad	12/29/06 03:05 PM
Re: Can you even SEE your denial?	Christine71	12/29/06 03:17 PM
Re: Can you even SEE your denial?	Susanf31	12/29/06 03:25 PM
OMG!!!	gr8Dad	12/29/06 03:21 PM
Re: OMG!!!	agui667	12/29/06 03:27 PM
you are getting skeptical too, eh?	Runswithscissors	12/29/06 03:48 PM
Re: Can you even SEE your denial?	agui667	12/29/06 03:20 PM
Yeah, sounds like a great kid...	gr8Dad	12/29/06 02:20 PM
Re: Yeah, sounds like a great kid...	Christine71	12/29/06 02:33 PM
Re: Yeah, sounds like a great kid...	BlendedFamily	12/29/06 06:53 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	agui667	12/29/06 02:18 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	tsl	12/29/06 05:38 AM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	katiefedup	12/28/06 10:10 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	jsp	12/28/06 10:07 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	Christine71	12/28/06 10:13 PM
Re: Child Support and DCFS Custody	jsp	12/28/06 10:36 PM

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