lsutton
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Re: Pulling away
01/15/07 08:29 AM
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You are all so right. I guess I tend to read more into things then I need to. For those you that have read my posts while we were apart I was miserable without him and I do love and want to spend a life with him but I keep kissing butt, not just being giving and kind but really kissing it in fear of him leaving for someone else. I just don't want to do that anymore. I do need to let the whole affair go as it is eating me alive. I just don't know how to yet. As far as scaring him, I work in law so he knows the run around. When he left before I made him immediately sign a seperation agreement and pay child support, which he did, reluctantly but he did anyway. He knows how hard it would be financially on both of us if he moved again. We have not agrued as I refuse to do so, if things start going that direction I change the subject or again bite my tongue. My family means the world to me and maybe I let that control my marriage to some extend but I still feel as though I don't know what direction to go in. I am sure you are all right that he is stressed out. A new baby, less sleep, financial woes, the whole thing. Also I look at the past and how he forgave me and how hard it was to get through. I am sure my marriage isn't near as bad as some out there, he is a good father and is not abusive, works to support his family (even though I work also) so sometimes I feel like I shouldn't complain at all. I just don't feel like either one of us are in this fully. Maybe it will come with time, maybe it won't I don't know yet.
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