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Re: Apologies for the lack of creativity...

01/31/07 05:09 PM

>Or is there seriously the chance of us saving things?

In theory there always is the chance of saving a marriage. All the more as you kept pointing out that your wife really wants/ed to.

Given that you are already 80% divorced, I conclude that your wife was not willing to give you the time you asked for. It seems she went through with 'either you take me back immediately and do not make me wait or I divorce you right away.' If that is so, then she has not changed one bit. You are talking about 'saving' things, but I doubt that you are talking about wanting to save or return to the status quo you had. That, I think, is perfectly possible.

But is it possible to create something new with her, something better, the relationship you wanted to have? With her - who always shows the same kind of reactions? I don't know. Your turn to answer.

Did she make an effort since you separated? Did she realize a couple of things while you were apart? Is there anything that justifies the hope that this time around things could be different? Have you changed? Do you think you could handle her better now? Do you think that this time around you could get her to hear you, to respect agreements, to consider your needs?

You know the answer to all of these questions, we do not. You know how many extra-miles you are willing to walk for this relationship, we do not. All we see is that you describe her as a person who does not seem to be willing to walk any extra-miles for you. From what you have written, she sounds like 'it is my way or the highway'. 'Accept my terms and fulfill my needs & wishes, or go and get lost.'

So what are we supposed to say?

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Apologies for the lack of creativity...	I_am_Jack	01/31/07 12:15 PM
Re: Apologies for the lack of creativity...	Rebecca5	02/03/07 08:33 PM
Re: Apologies for the lack of creativity...	Maury	02/03/07 10:39 PM
Re: Apologies for the lack of creativity...	shohn	02/04/07 04:00 PM
Re: Apologies for the lack of creativity...	I_am_Jack	02/04/07 04:54 PM
Re: Apologies for the lack of creativity...	Rebecca5	02/04/07 05:11 PM
Re: Apologies for the lack of creativity...	I_am_Jack	02/04/07 05:30 PM
Re: Apologies for the lack of creativity...	HO2	01/31/07 05:09 PM
Re: Apologies for the lack of creativity...	shohn	01/31/07 08:19 PM
Re: Apologies for the lack of creativity...	shohn	02/01/07 12:09 AM
Re: Apologies for the lack of creativity...	Rebecca5	02/03/07 08:31 PM
Re: Apologies for the lack of creativity...	Fab	02/01/07 08:14 AM
Re: Saving Things????	Annie7676	01/31/07 03:38 PM
Re: Apologies for the lack of creativity...	googledad	01/31/07 12:58 PM

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