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Re: Fairness
02/09/07 05:20 PM
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Both of us have been unhappy for a while. She sugested getting help about a year and a half ago and I thought we could work things out. Over time, we grew apart, didn't communicate our fears and frustrations and although on the surface, everything seemed "normal", inside I was miserable and very unhappy. We weren't giving 100% to each other and I think if we really wanted it to work, we would have. A few months ago I met someone who is going through the same thing and one thing led to another and we crossed the line and my wife found out. "She" was filling the void in my life. Prior to her finding out, we discussed our frustrations and how unhappy we both were. Shortly after these discussions, she found out and now I have to live with it the rest of my life. Even if I didn't have the affair, we were heading down that path. Not to make any excuses, but I honestly feel we were headed towards separating, just my actions sped up the process. Am I ashamed, absolutely, but life will go on and we need to be great parents. I wish I could turn back the clock and do it the "right" way, but I didn't.
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