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GeorgiaPeach
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New husband, new problems
      02/11/07 11:32 AM

My first husband passed away in 1999. It was a good marriage, not perfect, just good. I remarried in 2004 to a man I had known for all long time in our church. He came with some baggage; widower, children, grandchildren, and self esteem issues. He is jealous of my first husband. I admit I make mental comparisions, but try to hide my frustration, diappointment and anger. I am in love with him, but don't love him as deeply as he wants. I tell him that real love takes a good time to develop, but he is impatient with me. He gets moody and withdrawn. Accusing me of not loving him at all. After two and a half years, I am tried of the same discuss and it is driving me away from him. I can't discuss this with my pastor, because he has known us both for a long time in different marriages. I can't afford a therapist. Does anyone have any ideas how I can make this marriage work?

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* New husband, new problems GeorgiaPeach 02/11/07 11:32 AM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems Gecko   02/13/07 02:23 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems Debbie_L   02/13/07 03:51 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems GeorgiaPeach   02/13/07 04:00 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems Gecko   02/13/07 10:53 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems GeorgiaPeach   02/14/07 07:49 AM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems GeorgiaPeach   02/14/07 07:49 AM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems GeorgiaPeach   02/19/07 12:12 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems Curmudgeon   02/11/07 12:33 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems GeorgiaPeach   02/11/07 01:30 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems Curmudgeon   02/11/07 02:52 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems GeorgiaPeach   02/11/07 04:08 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems Curmudgeon   02/11/07 04:53 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems GeorgiaPeach   02/12/07 01:58 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems Curmudgeon   02/12/07 02:41 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems GeorgiaPeach   02/12/07 02:55 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems saralee   02/19/07 02:05 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems Curmudgeon   02/12/07 03:13 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems GeorgiaPeach   02/12/07 05:10 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems GeorgiaPeach   02/11/07 01:27 PM
. * * Re: New husband, new problems GeorgiaPeach   02/19/07 12:09 PM

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