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Re: Whoa!
      02/12/07 12:55 PM

I appreciate your opinion to agree with the others however let me ask you a question.
I feel strongly that you shouldn't have killed your baby because he/she would have been an inconvenience to you. Have you been on an abortion website? I had an ultrasound at 9 weeks and it amazed me how formed my baby already was at this young stage in my pregnancy. My sister had an abortion and had to have counceling becasue she never forgave herself. But you sure have haven't you. In your eyes who wants an obstacle or deal with your responsibility of a mistake you made? Your choice was to just get rid of it..easy enough huh?
I have two daughters, 18 and 13 who were both exstatic to know that I was having a baby. My 18 year old told me everything would be ok and that the birth of a baby was special no matter what the circumstances. She's very wise and very spiritual for her age. I'm very close to my daughters. Now had I chosen the coward way out and had an abortion what do you think my baby's siblings would have thought of me as their mother, making a choice to end a life for my own selfish reasons??? Their brother's life? People get pregnant everyday without meaning to...it happens to the best of us under different circumstances. So when you make a mistake in life..it's ultimately what you do with it that matters. Read my posts again and really pay attention to what I have said about my life.
I don't know you but it's really easy to judge you...I see you as a murderer..How about that...why did you choose to kill your baby to save yourself the burden? You must be a very selfish person...

You know ..I don't really judge you becasue I don't know you and I don't know what your frame of mind was at the time and I do believe in pro-choice if it's right for that person...But it wasn't the right thing for me. I'm sure, regardless of what you come back with at me..you probably were really upset that I could judge you so harshly without knowing you..we're only human. People do get their feelings hurt. I didn't mean what I said in the first couple paragraphs. I apoligise to you for being harsh..you did the best you could under your circumstances and your happy for it. That's good. Now please do not judge me because of this baby. It's ridiculous.

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* Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew 02/03/07 08:20 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 08:36 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:43 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 09:53 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 10:29 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Miranda   02/05/07 01:51 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 10:51 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:42 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:48 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/03/07 02:00 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 10:19 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/04/07 11:32 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 12:30 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 01:45 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! overcoming_evil   02/11/07 01:13 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/13/07 10:25 PM
. * * But but but... almostheaven   02/14/07 08:44 AM
. * * Re: But but but... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:32 AM
. * * Re: But but but... Olivia000102   02/14/07 01:42 PM
. * * Olivia... almostheaven   02/14/07 09:39 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... preemiemom   02/14/07 09:46 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... almostheaven   02/14/07 09:51 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:52 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/12/07 08:34 AM
. * * Whoa! almostheaven   02/11/07 07:02 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 08:27 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 08:51 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:18 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:04 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:11 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:16 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:41 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:45 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:59 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:04 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 09:15 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! Loretta   02/15/07 08:40 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/16/07 02:27 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:20 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:25 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! preemiemom   02/12/07 10:39 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:09 PM
. * * AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/12/07 07:41 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/12/07 10:10 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 08:51 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 09:01 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 09:59 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 04:36 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification zepdiva   02/13/07 06:30 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 06:37 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 07:12 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 07:16 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification zepdiva   02/14/07 11:50 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification Olivia000102   02/14/07 01:34 PM
. * * Shooooooooooo preemiemom   02/14/07 11:56 AM
. * * LOL almostheaven   02/14/07 09:38 PM
. * * Re: LOL Miranda   02/15/07 07:39 AM
. * * Re: LOL kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:52 AM
. * * Re: LOL Miranda   02/15/07 08:12 AM
. * * You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:29 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:15 AM
. * * "defending myself"... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:20 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/15/07 09:38 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:21 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/15/07 08:39 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Runswithscissors   02/15/07 10:09 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/16/07 12:03 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Redlegg   02/16/07 02:36 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:41 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:06 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:14 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Miranda   02/15/07 09:10 AM
. * * ROFLMFAO!... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:15 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:16 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 05:12 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:01 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 07:01 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:10 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 07:25 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:48 PM
. * * Troll almostheaven   02/15/07 08:15 PM
. * * Re: Troll kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:26 PM
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. * * Re: Troll preemiemom   02/15/07 09:16 PM
. * * Thanks... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:40 PM
. * * Re: Troll kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:32 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 08:12 PM
. * * No way Jose... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:16 PM
. * * "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:26 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... Karen1   02/15/07 07:33 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:48 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... Karen1   02/15/07 08:20 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:52 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... zepdiva   02/16/07 04:07 PM
. * * Hey troll... almostheaven   02/16/07 04:28 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... zepdiva   02/16/07 04:39 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/16/07 05:07 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... Karen1   02/16/07 05:39 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/17/07 02:31 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... Karen1   02/17/07 03:21 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/17/07 05:54 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... zepdiva   02/16/07 05:38 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:53 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:05 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:16 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:36 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:04 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:18 PM
. * * Man! almostheaven   02/16/07 02:25 PM
. * * OK... preemiemom   02/15/07 09:46 AM
. * * Re: OK... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:23 AM
. * * Re: OK... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:46 PM
. * * Hooray!... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:18 AM
. * * Re: Hooray!... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:28 AM
. * * Wow! almostheaven   02/15/07 06:49 PM
. * * Re: Hooray!... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:26 AM
. * * Re: Hooray!... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:50 PM
. * * Watch it Spring... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:41 AM
. * * Re: Watch it Spring... Spring   02/15/07 08:43 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... preemiemom   02/15/07 08:37 AM
. * * Oh I dunno... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:42 AM
. * * I'm LMAO! zepdiva   02/15/07 05:53 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! almostheaven   02/15/07 07:02 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! almostheaven   02/15/07 06:54 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:03 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification kemahapalew   02/13/07 10:02 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/14/07 08:41 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification Gecko   02/13/07 10:28 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification kemahapalew   02/14/07 04:51 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:37 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:54 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 06:06 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 06:11 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 09:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 12:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! matart1   02/12/07 02:02 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 03:49 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! preemiemom   02/12/07 01:38 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 04:20 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 03:40 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:29 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/04/07 05:29 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 09:11 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:38 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:32 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:32 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/04/07 01:59 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 02:41 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 03:48 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 03:58 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 04:01 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 04:12 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 04:49 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 04:53 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! TGSM   02/04/07 08:43 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/03/07 08:11 PM

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