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Re: Whoa!
      02/12/07 05:37 PM

I've never been "beaten" almostheaven.
So there's really no comparison to our situations. I said there was some violence..we've had our confrontations where he slapped me once and he's pushed me and left bruises on my arms. That was all during a certain period in our lives. I can understand why you would get the hell out of there..but when it's not quite as "in your face type abuse" that's going on it's a lot more difficult to make that decision.

I'm sorry that you were beaten..that's awful. I'm glad that you were strong enough to bring yourself out of it and start your life over. And i'm also glad that you were better at your carefullness and your precautions as to not getting pregnant.
I was 20 when I had my oldest daughter 25 when I had my second daughter and my sons came at 33 and 34. I'll be 39 when this little sweet baby is born. I am very close to my sisters, brothers and to my parents..I came from a huge family and I also have a lot of neices and nephews. We are a very close knit family. Except that we all live away from one another now because I chose to move here to Indiana to save my marriage. Why I'm telling you this is because again..I guess it's hard when you know your own situation and someone comes to a site that you've asked for advice and thinks they have the right to judge you. I'm sure I speak for everyone who feels the same way as I do. It's not a boo hoo hoo story..it sounds like maybe yours was however, and you prevailed...good for you!

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* Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew 02/03/07 08:20 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 08:36 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:43 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 09:53 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 10:29 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Miranda   02/05/07 01:51 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 10:51 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:42 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:48 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/03/07 02:00 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 10:19 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/04/07 11:32 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 12:30 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 01:45 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! overcoming_evil   02/11/07 01:13 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/13/07 10:25 PM
. * * But but but... almostheaven   02/14/07 08:44 AM
. * * Re: But but but... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:32 AM
. * * Re: But but but... Olivia000102   02/14/07 01:42 PM
. * * Olivia... almostheaven   02/14/07 09:39 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... preemiemom   02/14/07 09:46 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... almostheaven   02/14/07 09:51 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:52 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/12/07 08:34 AM
. * * Whoa! almostheaven   02/11/07 07:02 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 08:27 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 08:51 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:18 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:04 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:11 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:16 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:41 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:45 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:59 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:04 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 09:15 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! Loretta   02/15/07 08:40 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/16/07 02:27 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:20 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:25 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! preemiemom   02/12/07 10:39 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:09 PM
. * * AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/12/07 07:41 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/12/07 10:10 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 08:51 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 09:01 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 09:59 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 04:36 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification zepdiva   02/13/07 06:30 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 06:37 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 07:12 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 07:16 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification zepdiva   02/14/07 11:50 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification Olivia000102   02/14/07 01:34 PM
. * * Shooooooooooo preemiemom   02/14/07 11:56 AM
. * * LOL almostheaven   02/14/07 09:38 PM
. * * Re: LOL Miranda   02/15/07 07:39 AM
. * * Re: LOL kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:52 AM
. * * Re: LOL Miranda   02/15/07 08:12 AM
. * * You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:29 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:15 AM
. * * "defending myself"... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:20 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/15/07 09:38 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:21 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/15/07 08:39 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Runswithscissors   02/15/07 10:09 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/16/07 12:03 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Redlegg   02/16/07 02:36 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:41 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:06 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:14 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Miranda   02/15/07 09:10 AM
. * * ROFLMFAO!... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:15 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:16 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 05:12 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:01 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 07:01 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:10 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 07:25 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:48 PM
. * * Troll almostheaven   02/15/07 08:15 PM
. * * Re: Troll kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:26 PM
. * * Re: Troll almostheaven   02/16/07 02:36 PM
. * * Re: Troll preemiemom   02/15/07 09:16 PM
. * * Thanks... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:40 PM
. * * Re: Troll kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:32 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 08:12 PM
. * * No way Jose... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:16 PM
. * * "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:26 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... Karen1   02/15/07 07:33 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:48 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... Karen1   02/15/07 08:20 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:52 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... zepdiva   02/16/07 04:07 PM
. * * Hey troll... almostheaven   02/16/07 04:28 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... zepdiva   02/16/07 04:39 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/16/07 05:07 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... Karen1   02/16/07 05:39 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/17/07 02:31 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... Karen1   02/17/07 03:21 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/17/07 05:54 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... zepdiva   02/16/07 05:38 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:53 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:05 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:16 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:36 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:04 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:18 PM
. * * Man! almostheaven   02/16/07 02:25 PM
. * * OK... preemiemom   02/15/07 09:46 AM
. * * Re: OK... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:23 AM
. * * Re: OK... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:46 PM
. * * Hooray!... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:18 AM
. * * Re: Hooray!... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:28 AM
. * * Wow! almostheaven   02/15/07 06:49 PM
. * * Re: Hooray!... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:26 AM
. * * Re: Hooray!... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:50 PM
. * * Watch it Spring... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:41 AM
. * * Re: Watch it Spring... Spring   02/15/07 08:43 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... preemiemom   02/15/07 08:37 AM
. * * Oh I dunno... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:42 AM
. * * I'm LMAO! zepdiva   02/15/07 05:53 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! almostheaven   02/15/07 07:02 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! almostheaven   02/15/07 06:54 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:03 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification kemahapalew   02/13/07 10:02 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/14/07 08:41 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification Gecko   02/13/07 10:28 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification kemahapalew   02/14/07 04:51 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:37 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:54 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 06:06 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 06:11 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 09:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 12:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! matart1   02/12/07 02:02 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 03:49 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! preemiemom   02/12/07 01:38 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 04:20 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 03:40 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:29 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/04/07 05:29 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 09:11 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:38 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:32 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:32 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/04/07 01:59 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 02:41 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 03:48 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 03:58 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 04:01 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 04:12 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 04:49 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 04:53 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! TGSM   02/04/07 08:43 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/03/07 08:11 PM

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