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      02/15/07 09:46 AM

.. so help me understand. If we're so horrendous and AH and Miranda and I are such horrible terrible people with nothing of value to add to you, why would you even still be following the thread at all?

As for Dr. Phil, Maury, etc etc etc. They're ENTERTAINMENT shows. Anyone who seriously thinks they're going to go on a syndicated talk show, funded by ADVERTISERS and get REAL, LONG-TERM, or BENEFICIAL results is kinda disillusioned. You'd be better off using your health insurance, or, if your husband is military if I recall???? Your health insurance WILL cover counseling. My father has been a civil servant of the United States Navy for almost 50 years now and has received counseling services at various points over those years. Why you wouldn't avail yourself of THOSE services instead of going on a TALK SHOW is beyond me.

As for anyone who is still posting, post divorce... like AH and others. I don't know the current status of her present marriage personally, but from all I understand it is quite happy. EVERY marriage has "issues"; however, I think why some folks are here post-divorce is a) not every issue in a marriage is resolved BY divorce, particularly when their are children involved and b) having moved on from a divorce, onto a happier and healthier relationship or marriage, does not diminish the person's EXPERIENCE in having been divorced.

I'm surprised you are our age. Your responses and thought processes more closely resemble those of some of my friends in their mid 20's. Very immature, highly irrational, overly romanticized.

You are in a troubled marriage and you SHOULD seek counseling for both yourself and for your spouse through a licensed, qualified professional.. with whom you can both whether individually or collectively, discuss your issues and work them, on an ongoing basis.. and not on an hour long talk show program.

That is my point about "Dr. Phil". How one would ever expect a long-term benefit from your 15 minutes on an hour long show is beyond me. And while they may have promised services.. for how long? Counseling could take months, years even. How much did Dr. Phil pony up for?

Seriously, I'd look into your medical coverage.. check into like employee assistance programs for your husband and see if they offer counseling.

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* Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew 02/03/07 08:20 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 08:36 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:43 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 09:53 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 10:29 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Miranda   02/05/07 01:51 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 10:51 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:42 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:48 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/03/07 02:00 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 10:19 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/04/07 11:32 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 12:30 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 01:45 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! overcoming_evil   02/11/07 01:13 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/13/07 10:25 PM
. * * But but but... almostheaven   02/14/07 08:44 AM
. * * Re: But but but... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:32 AM
. * * Re: But but but... Olivia000102   02/14/07 01:42 PM
. * * Olivia... almostheaven   02/14/07 09:39 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... preemiemom   02/14/07 09:46 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... almostheaven   02/14/07 09:51 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:52 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/12/07 08:34 AM
. * * Whoa! almostheaven   02/11/07 07:02 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 08:27 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 08:51 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:18 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:04 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:11 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:16 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:41 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:45 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:59 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:04 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 09:15 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! Loretta   02/15/07 08:40 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/16/07 02:27 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:20 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:25 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! preemiemom   02/12/07 10:39 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:09 PM
. * * AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/12/07 07:41 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/12/07 10:10 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 08:51 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 09:01 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 09:59 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 04:36 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification zepdiva   02/13/07 06:30 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 06:37 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 07:12 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 07:16 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification zepdiva   02/14/07 11:50 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification Olivia000102   02/14/07 01:34 PM
. * * Shooooooooooo preemiemom   02/14/07 11:56 AM
. * * LOL almostheaven   02/14/07 09:38 PM
. * * Re: LOL Miranda   02/15/07 07:39 AM
. * * Re: LOL kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:52 AM
. * * Re: LOL Miranda   02/15/07 08:12 AM
. * * You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:29 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:15 AM
. * * "defending myself"... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:20 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/15/07 09:38 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:21 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/15/07 08:39 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Runswithscissors   02/15/07 10:09 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/16/07 12:03 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Redlegg   02/16/07 02:36 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:41 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:06 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:14 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Miranda   02/15/07 09:10 AM
. * * ROFLMFAO!... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:15 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:16 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 05:12 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:01 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 07:01 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:10 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 07:25 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:48 PM
. * * Troll almostheaven   02/15/07 08:15 PM
. * * Re: Troll kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:26 PM
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. * * Re: Troll preemiemom   02/15/07 09:16 PM
. * * Thanks... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:40 PM
. * * Re: Troll kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:32 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 08:12 PM
. * * No way Jose... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:16 PM
. * * "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:26 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... Karen1   02/15/07 07:33 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:48 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... Karen1   02/15/07 08:20 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:52 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... zepdiva   02/16/07 04:07 PM
. * * Hey troll... almostheaven   02/16/07 04:28 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... zepdiva   02/16/07 04:39 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/16/07 05:07 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... Karen1   02/16/07 05:39 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/17/07 02:31 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... Karen1   02/17/07 03:21 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/17/07 05:54 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... zepdiva   02/16/07 05:38 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:53 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:05 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:16 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:36 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:04 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:18 PM
. * * Man! almostheaven   02/16/07 02:25 PM
. * * OK... preemiemom   02/15/07 09:46 AM
. * * Re: OK... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:23 AM
. * * Re: OK... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:46 PM
. * * Hooray!... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:18 AM
. * * Re: Hooray!... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:28 AM
. * * Wow! almostheaven   02/15/07 06:49 PM
. * * Re: Hooray!... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:26 AM
. * * Re: Hooray!... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:50 PM
. * * Watch it Spring... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:41 AM
. * * Re: Watch it Spring... Spring   02/15/07 08:43 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... preemiemom   02/15/07 08:37 AM
. * * Oh I dunno... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:42 AM
. * * I'm LMAO! zepdiva   02/15/07 05:53 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! almostheaven   02/15/07 07:02 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! almostheaven   02/15/07 06:54 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:03 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification kemahapalew   02/13/07 10:02 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/14/07 08:41 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification Gecko   02/13/07 10:28 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification kemahapalew   02/14/07 04:51 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:37 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:54 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 06:06 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 06:11 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 09:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 12:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! matart1   02/12/07 02:02 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 03:49 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! preemiemom   02/12/07 01:38 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 04:20 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 03:40 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:29 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/04/07 05:29 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 09:11 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:38 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:32 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:32 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/04/07 01:59 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 02:41 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 03:48 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 03:58 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 04:01 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 04:12 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 04:49 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 04:53 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! TGSM   02/04/07 08:43 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/03/07 08:11 PM

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