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Re: Troll
      02/15/07 09:16 PM

[quote]So I'm considered a troll? I came on here for a specific purpose..to talk to someone who had been through the same type of situation as me and to feel a little bit of support. I by no means have ever been told I was a trouble maker. And I am definently not vindictive or malicious enough to make up handles and cause trouble on purpose. What a bad experience this has been. First time for something like this and the last..that's for sure.
I was really hurt because I know my life is hard and I know that it's going to be harder to go through everything with another mouth to feed but i was a married woman with all of my chidren and I do not think that it is considered advice to tell a grown woman not to have any more children. Especially being the first thing said to me... Period. I'm sorry that you both don't agree with that and you believe otherwise. Don't shoot down a person who's already as low as they can get. What's so hard to understand about that? [/quote]

Kew: Yes, you DID speak to women who had been in your shoes, you just CHOSE not to listen to what they had to say.

YES, the first suggestion, if you're trying to figure out how to get OUT of a troubled marriage, is to not bring any more children INTO that marriage. That's basic common sense, which can admittedly, be clouded by the blinding illusion that love can be.

However, you had two women, of similar ages, and who could at least somewhat relate to your background give you advice, and real world experience, and YOU chose to be nasty to them.. myself included.


I myself have been in your position on this board.. new to a personal situation.. not really ready to handle advice given.. and YES, there are MANY on this board who are caustic and rude, simply for the purpose, in my opinion, that they get their jollies out of it.

Char is NOT one of those people, and neither am I. In case you didn't notice.. I am a NEW member. I'm newly separated from my husband, my daughter's father.

Anyway, you only got negativity BACK because any advice or suggestions you were given was met with pure ostrich, head stuck in the sand, obstinence in refusing to see your own situation and where your own decisions have led you and where your continued poor decision-making and life management will lead you to.

Instead of spending your time criticizing those who HAVE tried to share with you.. why not take some time to absorb the information provided to you.. take a good look at where you're at.. where you want to be.. and what type of life you want your CHILDREN, most importantly, to have...

I'm sure you will read this and I hope you will read this with the intent it is written in.

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* Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew 02/03/07 08:20 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 08:36 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:43 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 09:53 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 10:29 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Miranda   02/05/07 01:51 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Rebecca5   02/04/07 10:51 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:42 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:48 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/03/07 02:00 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 10:19 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/04/07 11:32 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 12:30 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 01:45 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! overcoming_evil   02/11/07 01:13 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/13/07 10:25 PM
. * * But but but... almostheaven   02/14/07 08:44 AM
. * * Re: But but but... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:32 AM
. * * Re: But but but... Olivia000102   02/14/07 01:42 PM
. * * Olivia... almostheaven   02/14/07 09:39 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... preemiemom   02/14/07 09:46 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... almostheaven   02/14/07 09:51 PM
. * * Re: Olivia... kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:52 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/12/07 08:34 AM
. * * Whoa! almostheaven   02/11/07 07:02 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 08:27 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 08:51 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:18 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:04 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:11 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:16 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:41 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:45 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:59 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:04 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 09:15 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! Loretta   02/15/07 08:40 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/16/07 02:27 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:20 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:25 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! preemiemom   02/12/07 10:39 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:09 PM
. * * AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/12/07 07:41 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/12/07 10:10 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 08:51 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 09:01 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 09:59 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 04:36 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification zepdiva   02/13/07 06:30 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 06:37 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification preemiemom   02/13/07 07:12 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/13/07 07:16 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification zepdiva   02/14/07 11:50 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification Olivia000102   02/14/07 01:34 PM
. * * Shooooooooooo preemiemom   02/14/07 11:56 AM
. * * LOL almostheaven   02/14/07 09:38 PM
. * * Re: LOL Miranda   02/15/07 07:39 AM
. * * Re: LOL kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:52 AM
. * * Re: LOL Miranda   02/15/07 08:12 AM
. * * You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:29 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:15 AM
. * * "defending myself"... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:20 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/15/07 09:38 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:21 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/15/07 08:39 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Runswithscissors   02/15/07 10:09 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Spring   02/16/07 12:03 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Redlegg   02/16/07 02:36 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:41 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:06 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:14 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Miranda   02/15/07 09:10 AM
. * * ROFLMFAO!... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:15 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 09:16 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 05:12 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:01 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 07:01 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:10 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 07:25 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:48 PM
. * * Troll almostheaven   02/15/07 08:15 PM
. * * Re: Troll kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:26 PM
. * * Re: Troll almostheaven   02/16/07 02:36 PM
. * * Re: Troll preemiemom   02/15/07 09:16 PM
. * * Thanks... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:40 PM
. * * Re: Troll kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:32 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... Karen1   02/15/07 08:12 PM
. * * No way Jose... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:16 PM
. * * "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:26 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... Karen1   02/15/07 07:33 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:48 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... Karen1   02/15/07 08:20 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... almostheaven   02/16/07 02:52 PM
. * * Re: "They might be suffering from cabin fever"... zepdiva   02/16/07 04:07 PM
. * * Hey troll... almostheaven   02/16/07 04:28 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... zepdiva   02/16/07 04:39 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/16/07 05:07 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... Karen1   02/16/07 05:39 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/17/07 02:31 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... Karen1   02/17/07 03:21 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... almostheaven   02/17/07 05:54 PM
. * * Re: Hey troll... zepdiva   02/16/07 05:38 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:53 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:05 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 07:16 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 07:36 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:04 PM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... kemahapalew   02/15/07 08:18 PM
. * * Man! almostheaven   02/16/07 02:25 PM
. * * OK... preemiemom   02/15/07 09:46 AM
. * * Re: OK... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:23 AM
. * * Re: OK... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:46 PM
. * * Hooray!... almostheaven   02/15/07 10:18 AM
. * * Re: Hooray!... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:28 AM
. * * Wow! almostheaven   02/15/07 06:49 PM
. * * Re: Hooray!... kemahapalew   02/15/07 10:26 AM
. * * Re: Hooray!... almostheaven   02/15/07 06:50 PM
. * * Watch it Spring... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:41 AM
. * * Re: Watch it Spring... Spring   02/15/07 08:43 AM
. * * Re: You shoulda seen it coming Miranda... preemiemom   02/15/07 08:37 AM
. * * Oh I dunno... almostheaven   02/15/07 08:42 AM
. * * I'm LMAO! zepdiva   02/15/07 05:53 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! almostheaven   02/15/07 07:02 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! almostheaven   02/15/07 06:54 PM
. * * Re: I'm LMAO! kemahapalew   02/15/07 06:03 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification kemahapalew   02/13/07 10:02 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification almostheaven   02/14/07 08:41 AM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification Gecko   02/13/07 10:28 PM
. * * Re: AlmostHeaven.. Clarification kemahapalew   02/14/07 04:51 AM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 05:37 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 05:54 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 06:06 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 06:11 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! almostheaven   02/12/07 09:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 12:55 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! matart1   02/12/07 02:02 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 03:49 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! preemiemom   02/12/07 01:38 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 04:20 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 03:40 PM
. * * Re: Whoa! kemahapalew   02/12/07 09:29 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/04/07 05:29 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 09:11 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:38 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 08:32 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/05/07 07:32 AM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Gecko   02/04/07 01:59 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 02:41 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 03:48 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 03:58 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 04:01 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 04:12 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! kemahapalew   02/04/07 04:49 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! Maury   02/04/07 04:53 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! TGSM   02/04/07 08:43 PM
. * * Re: Im in Indiana as well, completely overwhelmed! almostheaven   02/03/07 08:11 PM

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