scrookes
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Re: Let me add
02/16/07 03:29 AM
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Well on Valentines night i went home and continued doing what I was doing. Being nice, playing with kids, even started to decorate the hall and staircase. She was being nice to me too, and offered to make tea after she got back from fetching take out food for the kids.
Whilst she was out I looked on her computer and discovered that during the day she'd been online with him, our eldest daughter and her friends and they'd been joking about her 'soon to be ex husband' and 'he's moving out soon so i can do what i want'.
I packed my things. Told my 7 year old that no matter what happens I love her, and had to leave her in tears with the 16 year old. I felt guilty and bad for this but could not face my wife on her return. I phoned her and asked 'Honest truth this time... do you want to save our marriage or not?'. She hung up on me. My phone rang and she said 'What do you know?' I told her 'Everything!' and ran through what I had found out. Basically she asked me to not be there when she got back so I've left her.
Been 2 days now and I miss her every second of every day. I'm at work crying, crying myself to sleep at night. I've never felt grief like this in my life. Even the death of close family members never felt like this to me. I wish I could go back but know it's over. I'm probably going to need help to get through this now. Will seek some form of counseling I think. Thanks again for all your advice and help. It seems that nothing I did could have made her change her mind. I'll never understand how someone can fall in love over text messages that last 4 weeks and hide her true emotions from me for over 2 years. Why was I so blind? And why do I still love her when she's done that to me?
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