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      02/16/07 04:11 AM

Again I am so sorry that you have to go through this. Counseling is a good idea so please plan to pursue that right now. Also getting some books on marriage issues like this would be good to start to try to help you.

The situation you are in is very difficult...many of us have been through this pain and hurt and its awful. Try to just put one step in front of another and be there for your children. Try to keep busy, exercise, lean on a good friend if you have family. Have you thought of talking to a minister?

As for your wife meeting this other man? and that you are moving out of the marital home? In some states there are laws and issues that come up because of that. To protect yourself legally even though its hard right now you may want to seek legal counsel so you know your rights.

The emotional breakup of a marriage is one of the hardest things you will ever face but the divorce part legally is very tough. So you should know what the rules are in your state just in case you have to go down that road.

I have no answers has to why your wife is meeting another man and yes it hurts very much..and you are in the beginning of it where it hurts the most. Trying to understand and deal with the confusion, pain, disbelief and all those very sad and hurtful emotions. Try to take care of you as best you can. Sometimes people take antidepressants to help them through the pain, seek medical help if you feel you need it.

And keep posting here those of us that have been through this will try to help as best we can.

Good luck to you and try to just take it one day at a time.

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* Please give advice on saving my marriage scrookes 02/10/07 12:42 PM
. * * Re: Please give advice on saving my marriage Curmudgeon   02/10/07 01:51 PM
. * * Re: Please give advice on saving my marriage scrookes   02/11/07 02:04 AM
. * * Re: Please give advice on saving my marriage Renee   02/11/07 07:31 PM
. * * Re: Please give advice on saving my marriage scrookes   02/12/07 04:41 AM
. * * Re: Please give advice on saving my marriage Rebecca5   02/12/07 10:28 AM
. * * Re: Please give advice on saving my marriage Gecko   02/17/07 02:45 PM
. * * Re: Please give advice on saving my marriage GeorgiaPeach   02/12/07 01:44 PM
. * * Re: Please give advice on saving my marriage Rebecca5   02/12/07 02:28 PM
. * * Re: Please give advice on saving my marriage rocketgirl   02/12/07 03:12 PM
. * * Re: Please give advice on saving my marriage GeorgiaPeach   02/12/07 05:18 PM
. * * Let's put it this way... Curmudgeon   02/12/07 08:28 AM
. * * Re: Let's put it this way... Fab   02/12/07 09:12 AM
. * * Re: Let's put it this way... GeorgiaPeach   02/12/07 10:06 AM
. * * Re: Let's put it this way... scrookes   02/13/07 02:44 AM
. * * Last attempt HO2   02/13/07 06:52 AM
. * * Let me add HO2   02/13/07 07:53 AM
. * * Re: Let me add GeorgiaPeach   02/13/07 08:40 AM
. * * Re: Let me add scrookes   02/14/07 02:00 AM
. * * Re: Let me add GeorgiaPeach   02/14/07 07:53 AM
. * * Re: Let me add scrookes   02/16/07 03:29 AM
. * * Why do you still love her? HO2   02/16/07 10:10 AM
. * * Re: Let me add Annie7676   02/16/07 04:11 AM
. * * Re: Let me add Fab   02/16/07 09:23 AM
. * * Re: Let me add Annie7676   02/14/07 07:26 AM
. * * Re: Let me add HO2   02/14/07 03:38 AM
. * * Re: Please give advice on saving my marriage scrookes   02/12/07 04:43 AM
. * * Re: Please give advice on saving my marriage Curmudgeon   02/11/07 10:19 AM

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