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liftnbhappy
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Re: It isn't getting any better....

02/20/07 09:18 AM

If you let yourself think of one thing over and over again, your brain receptors will rewire themselves and do it automatically without you wanting to or even being able to help yourself from doing it.

You have become obsessed with his affair. You need to seek professional help to pull yourself out of this. You can either choose to say counseling doesn't work or put some effort into it and find a counselor that will help you pull yourself out of this.

If you want to stay in this marriage or leave it you are going to have to get help to pull yourself out of this rut. Or you will forever obsess about how you have been done wrong.

Do you like being a victim? I ask that because that is what you are doing. You are making yourself into the victim here, how you have been done wrong. If you don't want to be the victim anymore and want to take charge of your life and YOU be the one in the drivers seat you are going to have to go get some help to pull you out of this mental rut.

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It isn't getting any better....	lsutton	02/16/07 12:34 PM
Re: It isn't getting any better....	sdefrain	02/26/07 12:50 PM
Re: It isn't getting any better....	dirtyred	03/10/07 02:54 PM
Re: It isn't getting any better....	liftnbhappy	02/20/07 09:18 AM
Re: It isn't getting any better....	lsutton	02/20/07 10:28 AM

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