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Re: Update

02/26/07 10:00 PM

[quote]shame on you [/quote]

Given the games mom is playing and the fact that there is a chance this isn't his child, especially given mom's behavior, there is no need for them to lavish gifts on mom to have a relationship with the child. How much does a baby need at his age? If mom is getting gov't benefits, why keep buying formula when he has what he needs? The baby is a newborn with plenty of material things - so, how much more does this child cost mom to have in her home vs. a few weeks before his birth - bottom line - not much at this point. Their money is better spent on an attorney and paternity test, and if this is his child, then a long court battle for visitation and parental rights, which mom will never willingly allow him to have given what she has shown to date.

They will easily go through thousands in the first year alone with attorney fees. They also have their own household to maintain. At some point they need to set limits or mom will take advantage of them and there is no guarentee that they will still get visits or any rights in the end. The worst thing my husband did was give into his ex for everything - it slowly turned into their situation - she took the kids and money and he got nothing - no visits, no phone contact, nothing and given the youngest age its not worth fighting and making two kids broke. But, if you've never been on the other side or been there, you'll hopefully never have to get it.

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Update	MommyAlisha	02/26/07 05:47 PM
Re: Update	Gecko	02/26/07 10:06 PM
Re: Update	Runswithscissors	02/27/07 04:57 AM
Re: Update	Gecko	02/27/07 01:46 PM
Re: Update	Runswithscissors	02/27/07 09:46 PM
Re: Update	MommyAlisha	02/27/07 05:59 AM
Re: Update	MommyAlisha	02/27/07 06:03 AM
Re: Update	Misslisa1017	02/27/07 09:40 AM
Re: Update	TGSM	02/26/07 09:36 PM
Re: Update	luvable0110	02/26/07 09:38 PM
Re: Update	luvable0110	02/26/07 07:38 PM
Re: Update	Avaya	02/26/07 06:02 PM
Re: Update	agui667	02/26/07 06:13 PM
Re: Update	MommyAlisha	02/26/07 08:05 PM
Re: Update	Runswithscissors	02/26/07 08:57 PM
Re: Update	MommyAlisha	02/27/07 05:51 AM
Re: Update	Runswithscissors	02/27/07 06:35 AM
Re: Update	MommyAlisha	02/27/07 03:14 PM
Re: Update	Lucy44	02/27/07 03:42 PM
Re: Update	MommyAlisha	02/27/07 07:30 PM
Re: Update	jsp	02/27/07 05:38 PM
Re: Update	MommyAlisha	02/27/07 07:39 PM
Re: Update	jsp	02/27/07 08:06 PM
Re: Update	MommyAlisha	02/28/07 07:57 AM
Re: Update	Lucy44	02/27/07 10:04 AM
Re: Update	MommyAlisha	02/26/07 08:08 PM
Re: Update	jsp	02/26/07 09:26 PM
Re: Update	MommyAlisha	02/27/07 05:57 AM
Re: Update	agui667	02/26/07 09:36 PM
Re: Update	jsp	02/26/07 10:00 PM
Re: Update	jil_stevens	02/26/07 07:47 PM
Re: Update	Moi	02/26/07 06:26 PM
Re: Update	Avaya	02/26/07 06:33 PM
Re: Update	Avaya	02/26/07 06:34 PM

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