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Ryan
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Reged: 07/11/05
Posts: 85
Loc: Kansas

Re: I don't get it

07/11/05 09:17 PM

I became that person that my wife didn't know. And when we got engaged she became that person I didn't know. One thing I try to keep in mind and I always wonder this, but why don't people just care about the things that are truly important. Like, holding hands while walking through the store, a big hug when you get home (the kind that make it seem like you've been gone for a year but only 8 hours). Why do people get so mad over trash not getting taken out or dishes not done or the house is a mess, etc. When I first got with my wife for 6 months we were extremely happy and affectionate and nothing could separate us. Then when I put the ring on her finger to be engaged she started griping about all the things she didn't like about me when we were boyfriend and girlfriend. It is hard to understand how somebody can love you one day and the next they don't. When we were dating we would make love (whatever you want to call it) all the time. When we got married we were both 21, we had sex like 3 times a month if that. What happened? I don't know. I need help in not living in the past and reliving all my regrets and letting them torment me.

Anyways, I know how you feel about this, right now, I sometimes feel that I don't even know her anymore. That she has forgotten who I am and what good times we did have along with the bad.

Ryan

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Life's too short to be pissed off all the time.

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I don't get it	kav	07/11/05 08:40 PM
Re: I don't get it	alabama	07/15/05 10:19 PM
Re: I don't get it	Karen1	07/15/05 11:22 PM
Re: I don't get it	alabama	07/15/05 11:52 PM
Re: I don't get it	NancyD	07/18/05 09:14 AM
Re: NancyD	alabama	07/18/05 03:35 PM
Re: I don't get it	lostandalone	07/16/05 09:07 PM
Re: lostandalone imploding	alabama	07/17/05 08:07 AM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/16/05 09:20 PM
Re: I don't get it	lostandalone	07/16/05 10:12 PM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/16/05 10:23 PM
To those who had long term marriage	Annie7676	07/15/05 03:58 PM
Re: To those who had long term marriage	lostandalone	07/15/05 07:17 PM
Re: To those who had long term marriage	Lyn	07/15/05 08:47 PM
Re: To Lost and Alone	Annie7676	07/15/05 08:45 PM
Re: To those who had long term marriage	kav	07/15/05 07:42 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 11:28 AM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/15/05 11:31 AM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 11:35 AM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/15/05 11:40 AM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 11:53 AM
Re: I don't get it	Karen1	07/15/05 12:04 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 12:11 PM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/15/05 12:14 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 12:23 PM
Re: I don't get it	Steph13	07/15/05 12:38 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 12:45 PM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/15/05 12:08 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 12:16 PM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/15/05 12:19 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 12:29 PM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/15/05 12:34 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 12:39 PM
Re: I don't get it	Steph13	07/15/05 12:43 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 12:47 PM
Re: I don't get it	Steph13	07/15/05 12:53 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 01:00 PM
Re: I don't get it	Lyn	07/15/05 09:18 PM
Re: lostandalone	alabama	07/15/05 10:07 PM
Re: lostandalone	Karen1	07/15/05 11:40 PM
Re: lostandalone	alabama	07/16/05 12:04 AM
Re: lostandalone	lostandalone	07/15/05 11:01 PM
Re: I don't get it	Steph13	07/15/05 01:10 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 01:21 PM
Re: I don't get it	Steph13	07/15/05 01:40 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 01:49 PM
Re: I don't get it	Steph13	07/15/05 01:58 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 02:04 PM
Re: I don't get it	Karen1	07/16/05 12:23 AM
Re: more to Karen1	alabama	07/16/05 08:54 AM
Re: to Karen1	alabama	07/16/05 08:41 AM
Re: to Karen1	Karen1	07/16/05 02:10 PM
Re:getting the h*ll out of town	alabama	07/17/05 09:16 AM
Re:getting the h*ll out of town	Karen1	07/17/05 05:54 PM
Re:getting the h*ll out of town	alabama	07/18/05 07:40 AM
Re:getting the h*ll out of town	Karen1	07/18/05 11:03 AM
Re: I don't get it	Steph13	07/15/05 02:08 PM
Re: I don't get it	Tabitha	07/12/05 10:48 AM
Re: I don't get it	tiredofit	07/12/05 12:03 PM
Re: I don't get it	Karen1	07/12/05 06:25 PM
Re: I don't get it	jsmom	07/16/05 12:17 AM
Re: jsmom	alabama	07/16/05 09:28 AM
Re: jsmom	jsmom	07/16/05 02:49 PM
Re: jsmom	alabama	07/18/05 03:48 PM
Re: jsmom	jsmom	07/19/05 12:59 AM
Re: jsmom	CaptainJim	07/18/05 04:07 PM
Re: jsmom	jsmom	07/19/05 12:53 AM
Re: jsmom	CaptainJim	07/19/05 07:22 AM
Re: jsmom meltdown	alabama	07/17/05 09:19 AM
Re: jsmom meltdown	jsmom	07/18/05 12:50 PM
Re: jsmom meltdown	alabama	07/18/05 03:16 PM
Re: jsmom	Karen1	07/16/05 02:20 PM
Re: I don't get it	Zeek	07/12/05 12:26 PM
Re: I don't get it	Lyn	07/12/05 07:02 AM
Re: I don't get it	Ryan	07/11/05 09:17 PM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/11/05 09:35 PM
Re: I don't get it	Ryan	07/11/05 10:36 PM
Re: I don't get it	overtherainbow	07/11/05 09:33 PM
Re: I don't get it	Karen1	07/12/05 06:29 PM

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