Ryan
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Reged: 07/11/05
Posts: 85
Loc: Kansas
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Re: I don't get it
07/11/05 10:36 PM
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My wife always seems that she has already forgotten about us. But then she tells me how she is miserable everyday because she thinks about it. Just today I talked to her and I reminded her that she told me that she is miserable. I told her that it is a problem for both of us. She asked me why and I told her, "it's my problem because I could have done more to stop this, and it's your problem because you don't have to go through it right now." I have told her that she has a choice whether or not to divorce me, she doesn't HAVE to divorce me. She got pissed at me when I told her that pretty much everything in life is your own choice. Some things happen that aren't by choice but 95% of what happens in your own life is your own choice, and she got pissed at me. She doesn't like to take responsibility for anything. If I don't get the almighty reprieve from the governor, I don't know how long it will take for me to move on. I work in a prison, it may be minimum security but we have everybody from murderers and rapists to child molesters, drug dealers, and men who didn't pay child support. And I am not suprised by any story or thought these guys tell me, but I am dumbfounded and perplexed at how somebody could want to actually go through a divorce instead of working their ass off to make it work.
A guy I work with quoted me a line from a movie and it fit for me but apparently not my wife. He said, "when two people love each other, and it just doesn't seem to click, when is enough enough?" I paused for a second, and he said "never". And it's true, if you truly love someone and they love you then there should never be a time when either person should give up on love.
I know I know I'm rambling. Just some things to think about.
Ryan
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Life's too short to be pissed off all the time.
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