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Karen1
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Loc: Ohio

Re: jsmom

07/16/05 02:20 PM

Alabama., that is the exact reason my stbx left... he was not happy and not willing to go to marital counseling. When our 26 year old sons makes attempts to talk to him about the divorce, all stbx will say is that he decided he was never going to be unhappy again. How unrealistic. He was angry over a lot of things, let a lot of minor things get to him in a big way. Things like most all of the other drivers on the road, he would get so angry I knew his blood pressure had to be high, would just bitch about these drivers for 5 minutes after whatever he perceived their offense to be, often as minor as no turn signal. So to think that this man could never be unhappy again, makes me laugh.

I actually feel sorry for him, his views of how he wants the world to be are never going to happen for him. He feels he is just about perfect in all areas of his life,, the rest of the world is off. In reality I think he is narcissistic and paranoid. I am finding I don't miss that in my life. I am realizing that his leaving is one of the best things that could happen for me. I just find the process so frustrating now, want to get to the point that the only dealings I have with stbx is seeing him at functions pertaining to our son, his almost wife and future babies.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
I don't get it	kav	07/11/05 08:40 PM
Re: I don't get it	alabama	07/15/05 10:19 PM
Re: I don't get it	Karen1	07/15/05 11:22 PM
Re: I don't get it	alabama	07/15/05 11:52 PM
Re: I don't get it	NancyD	07/18/05 09:14 AM
Re: NancyD	alabama	07/18/05 03:35 PM
Re: I don't get it	lostandalone	07/16/05 09:07 PM
Re: lostandalone imploding	alabama	07/17/05 08:07 AM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/16/05 09:20 PM
Re: I don't get it	lostandalone	07/16/05 10:12 PM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/16/05 10:23 PM
To those who had long term marriage	Annie7676	07/15/05 03:58 PM
Re: To those who had long term marriage	lostandalone	07/15/05 07:17 PM
Re: To those who had long term marriage	Lyn	07/15/05 08:47 PM
Re: To Lost and Alone	Annie7676	07/15/05 08:45 PM
Re: To those who had long term marriage	kav	07/15/05 07:42 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 11:28 AM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/15/05 11:31 AM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 11:35 AM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/15/05 11:40 AM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 11:53 AM
Re: I don't get it	Karen1	07/15/05 12:04 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 12:11 PM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/15/05 12:14 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 12:23 PM
Re: I don't get it	Steph13	07/15/05 12:38 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 12:45 PM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/15/05 12:08 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 12:16 PM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/15/05 12:19 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 12:29 PM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/15/05 12:34 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 12:39 PM
Re: I don't get it	Steph13	07/15/05 12:43 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 12:47 PM
Re: I don't get it	Steph13	07/15/05 12:53 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 01:00 PM
Re: I don't get it	Lyn	07/15/05 09:18 PM
Re: lostandalone	alabama	07/15/05 10:07 PM
Re: lostandalone	Karen1	07/15/05 11:40 PM
Re: lostandalone	alabama	07/16/05 12:04 AM
Re: lostandalone	lostandalone	07/15/05 11:01 PM
Re: I don't get it	Steph13	07/15/05 01:10 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 01:21 PM
Re: I don't get it	Steph13	07/15/05 01:40 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 01:49 PM
Re: I don't get it	Steph13	07/15/05 01:58 PM
Re: I don't get it	MADISON	07/15/05 02:04 PM
Re: I don't get it	Karen1	07/16/05 12:23 AM
Re: more to Karen1	alabama	07/16/05 08:54 AM
Re: to Karen1	alabama	07/16/05 08:41 AM
Re: to Karen1	Karen1	07/16/05 02:10 PM
Re:getting the h*ll out of town	alabama	07/17/05 09:16 AM
Re:getting the h*ll out of town	Karen1	07/17/05 05:54 PM
Re:getting the h*ll out of town	alabama	07/18/05 07:40 AM
Re:getting the h*ll out of town	Karen1	07/18/05 11:03 AM
Re: I don't get it	Steph13	07/15/05 02:08 PM
Re: I don't get it	Tabitha	07/12/05 10:48 AM
Re: I don't get it	tiredofit	07/12/05 12:03 PM
Re: I don't get it	Karen1	07/12/05 06:25 PM
Re: I don't get it	jsmom	07/16/05 12:17 AM
Re: jsmom	alabama	07/16/05 09:28 AM
Re: jsmom	jsmom	07/16/05 02:49 PM
Re: jsmom	alabama	07/18/05 03:48 PM
Re: jsmom	jsmom	07/19/05 12:59 AM
Re: jsmom	CaptainJim	07/18/05 04:07 PM
Re: jsmom	jsmom	07/19/05 12:53 AM
Re: jsmom	CaptainJim	07/19/05 07:22 AM
Re: jsmom meltdown	alabama	07/17/05 09:19 AM
Re: jsmom meltdown	jsmom	07/18/05 12:50 PM
Re: jsmom meltdown	alabama	07/18/05 03:16 PM
Re: jsmom	Karen1	07/16/05 02:20 PM
Re: I don't get it	Zeek	07/12/05 12:26 PM
Re: I don't get it	Lyn	07/12/05 07:02 AM
Re: I don't get it	Ryan	07/11/05 09:17 PM
Re: I don't get it	kav	07/11/05 09:35 PM
Re: I don't get it	Ryan	07/11/05 10:36 PM
Re: I don't get it	overtherainbow	07/11/05 09:33 PM
Re: I don't get it	Karen1	07/12/05 06:29 PM

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