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Re: jsmom
      07/16/05 02:20 PM

Alabama., that is the exact reason my stbx left... he was not happy and not willing to go to marital counseling. When our 26 year old sons makes attempts to talk to him about the divorce, all stbx will say is that he decided he was never going to be unhappy again. How unrealistic. He was angry over a lot of things, let a lot of minor things get to him in a big way. Things like most all of the other drivers on the road, he would get so angry I knew his blood pressure had to be high, would just bitch about these drivers for 5 minutes after whatever he perceived their offense to be, often as minor as no turn signal. So to think that this man could never be unhappy again, makes me laugh.

I actually feel sorry for him, his views of how he wants the world to be are never going to happen for him. He feels he is just about perfect in all areas of his life,, the rest of the world is off. In reality I think he is narcissistic and paranoid. I am finding I don't miss that in my life. I am realizing that his leaving is one of the best things that could happen for me. I just find the process so frustrating now, want to get to the point that the only dealings I have with stbx is seeing him at functions pertaining to our son, his almost wife and future babies.

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* I don't get it kav 07/11/05 08:40 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it alabama   07/15/05 10:19 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/15/05 11:22 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it alabama   07/15/05 11:52 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it NancyD   07/18/05 09:14 AM
. * * Re: NancyD alabama   07/18/05 03:35 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it lostandalone   07/16/05 09:07 PM
. * * Re: lostandalone imploding alabama   07/17/05 08:07 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/16/05 09:20 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it lostandalone   07/16/05 10:12 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/16/05 10:23 PM
. * * To those who had long term marriage Annie7676   07/15/05 03:58 PM
. * * Re: To those who had long term marriage lostandalone   07/15/05 07:17 PM
. * * Re: To those who had long term marriage Lyn   07/15/05 08:47 PM
. * * Re: To Lost and Alone Annie7676   07/15/05 08:45 PM
. * * Re: To those who had long term marriage kav   07/15/05 07:42 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 11:28 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 11:31 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 11:35 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 11:40 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 11:53 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/15/05 12:04 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:11 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 12:14 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:23 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 12:38 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:45 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 12:08 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:16 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 12:19 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:29 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 12:34 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:39 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 12:43 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:47 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 12:53 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 01:00 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Lyn   07/15/05 09:18 PM
. * * Re: lostandalone alabama   07/15/05 10:07 PM
. * * Re: lostandalone Karen1   07/15/05 11:40 PM
. * * Re: lostandalone alabama   07/16/05 12:04 AM
. * * Re: lostandalone lostandalone   07/15/05 11:01 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 01:10 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 01:21 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 01:40 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 01:49 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 01:58 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 02:04 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/16/05 12:23 AM
. * * Re: more to Karen1 alabama   07/16/05 08:54 AM
. * * Re: to Karen1 alabama   07/16/05 08:41 AM
. * * Re: to Karen1 Karen1   07/16/05 02:10 PM
. * * Re:getting the h*ll out of town alabama   07/17/05 09:16 AM
. * * Re:getting the h*ll out of town Karen1   07/17/05 05:54 PM
. * * Re:getting the h*ll out of town alabama   07/18/05 07:40 AM
. * * Re:getting the h*ll out of town Karen1   07/18/05 11:03 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 02:08 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Tabitha   07/12/05 10:48 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it tiredofit   07/12/05 12:03 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/12/05 06:25 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it jsmom   07/16/05 12:17 AM
. * * Re: jsmom alabama   07/16/05 09:28 AM
. * * Re: jsmom jsmom   07/16/05 02:49 PM
. * * Re: jsmom alabama   07/18/05 03:48 PM
. * * Re: jsmom jsmom   07/19/05 12:59 AM
. * * Re: jsmom CaptainJim   07/18/05 04:07 PM
. * * Re: jsmom jsmom   07/19/05 12:53 AM
. * * Re: jsmom CaptainJim   07/19/05 07:22 AM
. * * Re: jsmom meltdown alabama   07/17/05 09:19 AM
. * * Re: jsmom meltdown jsmom   07/18/05 12:50 PM
. * * Re: jsmom meltdown alabama   07/18/05 03:16 PM
. * * Re: jsmom Karen1   07/16/05 02:20 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Zeek   07/12/05 12:26 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Lyn   07/12/05 07:02 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it Ryan   07/11/05 09:17 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/11/05 09:35 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Ryan   07/11/05 10:36 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it overtherainbow   07/11/05 09:33 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/12/05 06:29 PM

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