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lostandalone
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Re: I don't get it
      07/16/05 09:07 PM



Hey lostandalone...forget the job analogy...soooooo...if you do not know why she left...how do you know that it will minimize the pain?..doesn't make sense...

I'm not going to buy into this "...what did I do wrong" crap...find something else to focus on... [/quote]

Unfortunately you are mistaken alabama...I know "why" she left I just don't understand the events that led to it (maybe there are none...but maybe there are...that's what I don't know). Actually I threw her out...she knew I would once I found out...probably didn't have the courage to leave on her own so she forced my hand. I believe she is going through her "mid-life crisis"....and this was her solution.

"Those who do not learn from the past are doomed to repeat it".....If I ever want to have a serious relationship again I need to learn from "the past". If I did nothing wrong and it was just her....so be it....I just want an answer...otherwise I will live my life with my three children (dogs)alone and won't bother to get involved with anyone else for fear of the same scenario occuring again.

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* I don't get it kav 07/11/05 08:40 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it alabama   07/15/05 10:19 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/15/05 11:22 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it alabama   07/15/05 11:52 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it NancyD   07/18/05 09:14 AM
. * * Re: NancyD alabama   07/18/05 03:35 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it lostandalone   07/16/05 09:07 PM
. * * Re: lostandalone imploding alabama   07/17/05 08:07 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/16/05 09:20 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it lostandalone   07/16/05 10:12 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/16/05 10:23 PM
. * * To those who had long term marriage Annie7676   07/15/05 03:58 PM
. * * Re: To those who had long term marriage lostandalone   07/15/05 07:17 PM
. * * Re: To those who had long term marriage Lyn   07/15/05 08:47 PM
. * * Re: To Lost and Alone Annie7676   07/15/05 08:45 PM
. * * Re: To those who had long term marriage kav   07/15/05 07:42 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 11:28 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 11:31 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 11:35 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 11:40 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 11:53 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/15/05 12:04 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:11 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 12:14 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:23 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 12:38 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:45 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 12:08 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:16 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 12:19 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:29 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/15/05 12:34 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:39 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 12:43 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 12:47 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 12:53 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 01:00 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Lyn   07/15/05 09:18 PM
. * * Re: lostandalone alabama   07/15/05 10:07 PM
. * * Re: lostandalone Karen1   07/15/05 11:40 PM
. * * Re: lostandalone alabama   07/16/05 12:04 AM
. * * Re: lostandalone lostandalone   07/15/05 11:01 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 01:10 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 01:21 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 01:40 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 01:49 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 01:58 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it MADISON   07/15/05 02:04 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/16/05 12:23 AM
. * * Re: more to Karen1 alabama   07/16/05 08:54 AM
. * * Re: to Karen1 alabama   07/16/05 08:41 AM
. * * Re: to Karen1 Karen1   07/16/05 02:10 PM
. * * Re:getting the h*ll out of town alabama   07/17/05 09:16 AM
. * * Re:getting the h*ll out of town Karen1   07/17/05 05:54 PM
. * * Re:getting the h*ll out of town alabama   07/18/05 07:40 AM
. * * Re:getting the h*ll out of town Karen1   07/18/05 11:03 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it Steph13   07/15/05 02:08 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Tabitha   07/12/05 10:48 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it tiredofit   07/12/05 12:03 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/12/05 06:25 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it jsmom   07/16/05 12:17 AM
. * * Re: jsmom alabama   07/16/05 09:28 AM
. * * Re: jsmom jsmom   07/16/05 02:49 PM
. * * Re: jsmom alabama   07/18/05 03:48 PM
. * * Re: jsmom jsmom   07/19/05 12:59 AM
. * * Re: jsmom CaptainJim   07/18/05 04:07 PM
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. * * Re: jsmom meltdown alabama   07/17/05 09:19 AM
. * * Re: jsmom meltdown jsmom   07/18/05 12:50 PM
. * * Re: jsmom meltdown alabama   07/18/05 03:16 PM
. * * Re: jsmom Karen1   07/16/05 02:20 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Zeek   07/12/05 12:26 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Lyn   07/12/05 07:02 AM
. * * Re: I don't get it Ryan   07/11/05 09:17 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it kav   07/11/05 09:35 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Ryan   07/11/05 10:36 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it overtherainbow   07/11/05 09:33 PM
. * * Re: I don't get it Karen1   07/12/05 06:29 PM

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