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NYGAL
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HELP FROM NY

04/06/07 08:53 PM

Hi

Am hoping to have a pretty amicable divorce, have decided to go with a mediator.

The only problem is that my STBX found e-mails that were written between me and another man (not my proudest moment to say the least...) and is now threatening to use them if I go after him for spousal support.

We have been married for 15 years and have one son - 7 years old.

I have been a stay-at-home Mom since our son was born with a P/T job that pays $6,000/yr - he makes approx. $85,000/yr.

We have not had a "real" marriage in over 3 years (which he accepts responsibility for). And this other man has nothing to do with why we are separating and wasn't even in the picture until recently.

Do I try for spousal support? How bad can the e-mails hurt me if he does use them? What are the morality laws with regard to spousal support?

I feel like he may be using my guilt to manipulate me...

Thanks!

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
HELP FROM NY	NYGAL	04/06/07 08:53 PM
Re: HELP FROM NY	Gecko	04/07/07 12:51 PM
Re: HELP FROM NY	googledad	04/07/07 12:03 AM
Re: HELP FROM NY	NYGAL	04/07/07 07:10 AM
You haven't lived...	gr8Dad	04/06/07 09:48 PM
Re: You haven't lived...	trophywife	04/06/07 10:01 PM
Well...	gr8Dad	04/06/07 10:04 PM
Re: Well...	Sad2Bad	04/14/07 05:47 PM
Re: Well...	Rebecca5	04/06/07 10:10 PM
I asked for clarification...	gr8Dad	04/06/07 10:15 PM
Re: I asked for clarification...	Rebecca5	04/06/07 10:55 PM
Re: Well...	katiefedup	04/06/07 10:06 PM
Re: HELP FROM NY	trophywife	04/06/07 08:57 PM
Re: HELP FROM NY	trophywife	04/06/07 09:03 PM
Re: HELP FROM NY	NYGAL	04/06/07 09:11 PM
Re: HELP FROM NY	trophywife	04/06/07 09:22 PM
Re: HELP FROM NY	NYGAL	04/06/07 09:26 PM
Re: HELP FROM NY	trophywife	04/06/07 09:28 PM
Re: HELP FROM NY	madalex	04/08/07 07:31 AM
LOL...	Miranda	04/08/07 09:23 PM
Adultry	trophywife	04/08/07 10:11 PM
Re: HELP FROM NY	trophywife	04/08/07 07:58 AM
Re: HELP FROM NY	Susanf31	04/08/07 06:11 PM
Re: HELP FROM NY	Miranda	04/08/07 09:22 PM
Hold on Susan...	gr8Dad	04/08/07 06:16 PM
Re: Hold on Susan...	Susanf31	04/09/07 08:52 AM
Oh yeah, he got a GREAT settlement...	gr8Dad	04/09/07 05:06 PM
Re: Oh yeah, he got a GREAT settlement...	Susanf31	04/10/07 11:38 AM
Re: Oh yeah, he got a GREAT settlement...	Miranda	04/10/07 12:55 PM
Re: Oh yeah, he got a GREAT settlement...	Susanf31	04/10/07 01:14 PM
Re: Oh yeah, he got a GREAT settlement...	Miranda	04/10/07 03:18 PM
Re: Hold on Susan...	txks1151	04/08/07 08:36 PM
Re: HELP FROM NY	Renee	04/07/07 01:04 PM

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