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Arkrube
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Re: Moving on via moving..?

04/11/07 03:57 PM

How does arguing about money and time spent better their lives? What does it do for me to deny paying/allowing participation in activites that they were "promised" by MOM?
I have to see her about 4 times per week and it is always about her in need of money, my retirement accounts, a new shirt and even the issue of me re-staining my deck have been points of contention. Issues, such as the latter, have been "brought out" in front of the children...where do I "exit"?
I am the a??h*#% because, now, I say "no" to operating outside the parameters of the divorce decree? Did she think it would be just like being married, but without living together and sharing a bed? Yet, we would have joint accounts and feel a need to discuss and come to agree on everything at some point? She doesn't like to be told, "refer to the divorce decree".
She is my ex-wife and I feel I must re-affirm 4 times per week that her opinion is just that...her's as spoken by that of an ex-wife.
I just feel it is fruitless to argue and squabble over a relationship that has become a legal arrangement involving one that wants to renegotiate and one that wants form of "normal"; whatever that may be.
I am not looking "run" just to return to a "crossroad" in my life and start down another road...

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Moving on via moving..?	Arkrube	04/11/07 01:34 PM
Re: Moving on via moving..?	Avaya	05/09/07 12:55 PM
Re: Moving on via moving..?	yregna	04/30/07 12:26 PM
You need to practice...	gr8Dad	04/12/07 11:07 PM
Have to agree with gr8dad	BeckaLeigh	04/13/07 08:46 PM
Re: Have to agree with gr8dad	Redlegg	04/16/07 05:49 AM
Re: Have to agree with gr8dad	Arkrube	04/17/07 08:43 PM
Re: Have to agree with gr8dad	CiCi	04/19/07 03:59 PM
Re: Moving on via moving..?	Grace	04/12/07 11:02 PM
Re: Moving on via moving..?	Debi	04/11/07 07:45 PM
Re: Moving on via moving..?	asurvivor	04/11/07 02:08 PM
Re: Moving on via moving..?	Arkrube	04/11/07 03:57 PM
Re: Moving on via moving..?	madalex	04/12/07 11:45 AM
Re: Moving on via moving..?	Patrice	04/12/07 01:47 PM

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