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KiwiGirl
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To butt in here

07/25/05 09:48 PM

Bacall,

Do NOT read those books. Forget about them. No books, nothing. Instead go outside and drive until you get to a remote spot and get out of your car and start to yell and scream. Let out the rage and frustration and anger and every painful moment your ex's decision has created.

Then look around, straighten yourself up and drive home.

It will not solve your financial woes, it will not make a new life for you. But it will release some of that bottled up tension I sense simmers over in a few tears now and again. I understand you are infinitely sad over the life you have been handed and feel entirely shortchanged by it all. Add to that financial woes caused by a 'head in the sand' approach to your finances (which I am just as guilty of doing, so you are not alone) and life seems like a mountain where you climb 4 steps and slide back 5. But life will go on. YOu still have a job, you still have all your limbs and your ability to move. Big fat failure? NEVER! The 'failure' is the man who walked away from life-long promises and vows. They all are failures ion my book. My ex, my husbands ex, Melanie's ex, your ex. All big fat failures. :confused:

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Is time the great healer?	bacall	07/19/05 11:25 AM
Re: Is time the great healer?	NancyD	07/26/05 04:56 AM
Re: Is time the great healer?	mlh53	07/21/05 06:29 PM
Re: Is time the great healer?	bacall	07/22/05 01:07 PM
To butt in here	KiwiGirl	07/25/05 09:48 PM
Re: To butt in here	Karen1	07/26/05 06:40 PM
Re: Is time the great healer?	Annie7676	07/19/05 08:49 PM
Re: Is time the great healer?	kav	07/19/05 10:07 PM
Re: Is time the great healer?	Annie7676	07/20/05 04:33 PM
Re: Is time the great healer?	kav	07/20/05 06:02 PM
Re: Is time the great healer?	kav	07/20/05 06:03 PM
Childbirth and such	KiwiGirl	07/21/05 05:15 PM
KiwiGirl - So well said :) !	mlh53	07/21/05 06:34 PM
Re: Childbirth and such	CaptainJim	07/21/05 05:24 PM
Re: Is time the great healer?	Tabitha	07/19/05 01:06 PM
Re: Is time the great healer?	Terri1	07/19/05 04:03 PM
Re: Is time the great healer?	Ryan	07/19/05 04:19 PM
Re: Is time the great healer?	CaptainJim	07/19/05 05:44 PM

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