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Karen1
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Re: The wedding was wonderful

07/26/05 11:50 AM

TGSM, thanks. I always feel better when I take the high road and I do hope my son noticed. I did say hello to stbx and OW at the dinner after the rehearsal, even complimented her on the table decorations she had done, and mentioned how nice it was that they had used some of my deceased m-i-l's sea shells. The dinner was paid for my stbx so I had nothing to do with that. I paid for the honeymoon to Cancun. Bet you can guess which of the two was about 4 times more costly!

At the wedding however, I did not acknowledge either of them. After the reception line arrangements, I was just not up to it, and figured I had made the first move in speaking at the prior and only 2 functions we were all at and wanted to see if that would be reciprocated, it was not.

I did hear some comments from others there, about what a short leash OW keeps stbx on. Guess there might be a trust issue going on there. They also would be gone from the reception hall, and not on the outdoor pavillion for long stretches of time, and for several times. My guess is sneaking off to her van for a drink, as there was not alcohol at the wedding and stbx does have an alcohol abuse problem.

Somehow the entire evening before and the wedding seems to be upsetting me more now than it did at the time. My typical delayed reaction nature kicking in I guess. Then I go and look at the dig photos I have from the wedding and that is a real mood lifter!

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"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened".

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
The wedding was wonderful	Karen1	07/25/05 07:02 PM
Re: The wedding was wonderful	lucky44	08/05/05 05:30 AM
Re: The wedding was wonderful	Karen1	08/08/05 09:25 PM
Re: The wedding was wonderful	mlh53	07/26/05 06:07 PM
Re: The wedding was wonderful	NancyD	07/26/05 03:38 PM
Re: The wedding was wonderful	TGSM	07/25/05 08:24 PM
Re: The wedding was wonderful	Karen1	07/26/05 11:50 AM
Re: The wedding was wonderful	TGSM	07/26/05 11:55 AM
Boy...what a rough day!	Melody	07/25/05 08:19 PM
Re: Boy...what a rough day!	Karen1	07/26/05 01:00 PM
Yeah, I see what you mean	Melody	07/26/05 02:10 PM
Re: Boy...what a rough day!	alabama	07/26/05 01:54 PM
Re: The wedding was wonderful	kav	07/25/05 07:08 PM
Re: The wedding was wonderful	Karen1	07/26/05 11:31 AM
Re: The wedding was wonderful	Annie7676	07/25/05 08:12 PM
Re: The wedding was wonderful	Karen1	07/26/05 11:39 AM
Re: Chg in outlook"the blended family"	Annie7676	07/26/05 03:54 PM
Re: Chg in outlook"the blended family"	overtherainbow	07/26/05 04:43 PM
Hey now...	TGSM	07/26/05 04:57 PM
Re: Hey now...	overtherainbow	07/26/05 05:49 PM
Re: Hey now...	NancyD	07/26/05 07:10 PM
Re: Hey now...	Karen1	07/27/05 06:33 AM
Re: Hey now...	CaptainJim	07/26/05 05:52 PM
Re: Hey now...	Karen1	07/27/05 06:18 AM
Re: Hey now...	overtherainbow	07/26/05 06:12 PM
Re: Hey now...	Karen1	07/26/05 06:52 PM
Re: Hey now...	overtherainbow	07/26/05 07:14 PM
Re: Hey now...	Karen1	07/27/05 06:51 AM
A total look at what it was	Annie7676	07/26/05 07:28 PM
Re: A total look at what it was	Karen1	07/27/05 06:55 AM
Re: Hey now...	CaptainJim	07/26/05 05:48 PM
Not you again :P	TGSM	07/26/05 07:24 PM
Re: Not you again :P	overtherainbow	07/26/05 07:44 PM
Oh not you sweetie	TGSM	07/26/05 07:47 PM
Re: Oh not you sweetie	kav	07/26/05 08:05 PM
Re: Oh not you sweetie	Karen1	07/27/05 07:05 AM
LOL	TGSM	07/26/05 08:11 PM
Re: Hey now...	Karen1	07/26/05 06:16 PM
Re:I REMEMBER LUV	alabama	07/26/05 08:22 PM
Re:I REMEMBER LUV	Karen1	07/27/05 07:15 AM
Re: Hey now...	kav	07/26/05 06:26 PM
Re: Hey now...	Karen1	07/27/05 07:24 AM
Re: Hey now...	kav	07/27/05 07:33 AM
Re: Hey now...	Karen1	07/27/05 03:18 PM
Re: Hey now...	overtherainbow	07/28/05 01:09 AM
Re: Hey now...	NancyD	07/28/05 05:56 AM
Re: Hey now...	overtherainbow	07/28/05 01:33 PM
Re: Hey now...	NancyD	07/29/05 07:41 PM
Leave her alone, please	Melody	07/28/05 01:23 AM

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