Start Your Divorce Today - Premium Divorce Online


Divorce Source Community Forums >> Life After Divorce

Karen1
Pooh-Bah
**

Reged: 06/02/05
Posts: 1794
Loc: Ohio
Re: Hey now...
      07/26/05 06:16 PM

Well I disagree on over's post not being meant to hurt.
Her comment about get a lipo, a face lift and a new man was uncalled for.

For another, he is not my X, we are still married. OH how I wish he was my X. Our signed settlement agreement and final court date that WAS to be tomorrow is history, because he got a different attorney. one more delay tactic.

Further, I was not in hte least jealous, OW is welcome to him. She will find out what she really got at some point in time.

My problem with who paid what is because stbx had agreed with me, and told our son, that he would pay for half of the dinner and honeymoon and then backed out.

My problem with the receiving line is not that OW was in it, it was that no one felt it was important to tell me of that in advance and thus I was blind sided. This wedding did go as smooth as butter because no one knew any of it bothered me.

People don't just get over 30 years with someone on Overtherainbow's time table. As to blended family, my son is an adult and has a choice on how he feels about OW as a SM and her kids as step sibs.

One can disagree in a reasonable fashion. It is when the name calling or put downs ( lipo, face lift) enter it that a poster shows how immature they are.

--------------------
"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened".

Post Extras Print Post   Remind Me!     Notify Moderator


Entire topic
Subject Posted by Posted on
* The wedding was wonderful Karen1 07/25/05 07:02 PM
. * * Re: The wedding was wonderful lucky44   08/05/05 05:30 AM
. * * Re: The wedding was wonderful Karen1   08/08/05 09:25 PM
. * * Re: The wedding was wonderful mlh53   07/26/05 06:07 PM
. * * Re: The wedding was wonderful NancyD   07/26/05 03:38 PM
. * * Re: The wedding was wonderful TGSM   07/25/05 08:24 PM
. * * Re: The wedding was wonderful Karen1   07/26/05 11:50 AM
. * * Re: The wedding was wonderful TGSM   07/26/05 11:55 AM
. * * Boy...what a rough day! Melody   07/25/05 08:19 PM
. * * Re: Boy...what a rough day! Karen1   07/26/05 01:00 PM
. * * Yeah, I see what you mean Melody   07/26/05 02:10 PM
. * * Re: Boy...what a rough day! alabama   07/26/05 01:54 PM
. * * Re: The wedding was wonderful kav   07/25/05 07:08 PM
. * * Re: The wedding was wonderful Karen1   07/26/05 11:31 AM
. * * Re: The wedding was wonderful Annie7676   07/25/05 08:12 PM
. * * Re: The wedding was wonderful Karen1   07/26/05 11:39 AM
. * * Re: Chg in outlook"the blended family" Annie7676   07/26/05 03:54 PM
. * * Re: Chg in outlook"the blended family" overtherainbow   07/26/05 04:43 PM
. * * Hey now... TGSM   07/26/05 04:57 PM
. * * Re: Hey now... overtherainbow   07/26/05 05:49 PM
. * * Re: Hey now... NancyD   07/26/05 07:10 PM
. * * Re: Hey now... Karen1   07/27/05 06:33 AM
. * * Re: Hey now... CaptainJim   07/26/05 05:52 PM
. * * Re: Hey now... Karen1   07/27/05 06:18 AM
. * * Re: Hey now... overtherainbow   07/26/05 06:12 PM
. * * Re: Hey now... Karen1   07/26/05 06:52 PM
. * * Re: Hey now... overtherainbow   07/26/05 07:14 PM
. * * Re: Hey now... Karen1   07/27/05 06:51 AM
. * * A total look at what it was Annie7676   07/26/05 07:28 PM
. * * Re: A total look at what it was Karen1   07/27/05 06:55 AM
. * * Re: Hey now... CaptainJim   07/26/05 05:48 PM
. * * Not you again :P TGSM   07/26/05 07:24 PM
. * * Re: Not you again :P overtherainbow   07/26/05 07:44 PM
. * * Oh not you sweetie TGSM   07/26/05 07:47 PM
. * * Re: Oh not you sweetie kav   07/26/05 08:05 PM
. * * Re: Oh not you sweetie Karen1   07/27/05 07:05 AM
. * * LOL TGSM   07/26/05 08:11 PM
. * * Re: Hey now... Karen1   07/26/05 06:16 PM
. * * Re:I REMEMBER LUV alabama   07/26/05 08:22 PM
. * * Re:I REMEMBER LUV Karen1   07/27/05 07:15 AM
. * * Re: Hey now... kav   07/26/05 06:26 PM
. * * Re: Hey now... Karen1   07/27/05 07:24 AM
. * * Re: Hey now... kav   07/27/05 07:33 AM
. * * Re: Hey now... Karen1   07/27/05 03:18 PM
. * * Re: Hey now... overtherainbow   07/28/05 01:09 AM
. * * Re: Hey now... NancyD   07/28/05 05:56 AM
. * * Re: Hey now... overtherainbow   07/28/05 01:33 PM
. * * Re: Hey now... NancyD   07/29/05 07:41 PM
. * * Leave her alone, please Melody   07/28/05 01:23 AM

Extra information
0 registered and 10 anonymous users are browsing this forum.

Moderator:  dsAdmin 



Forum Permissions
      You cannot start new topics
      You cannot reply to topics
      HTML is disabled
      UBBCode is disabled

Rating:
Thread views: 4816

Rate this thread

Jump to

Contact Us Divorce Source Home

*
UBB.threads™ 6.5.1.1


Resources & Tools
Start Your Divorce Online Start Your Divorce
Several Options to Get Started Today.
Divorce Tools Online Divorce Tools
Keeping it Simple to Get the Job Done.
Divorce Downloads Download Center
Instantly Download Books, Guides & Forms.
Divorce and Custody Books Discount Books
Over 100 of the Best Divorce & Custody Books.
Negotiate Online Negotiate Online
Settle your Divorce and Save.
Custody and Support Tracking Custody Scheduling
Make Sure You Document Everything.

Easily Connect With a Lawyer or Mediator
Have Divorce Professionals from Your Area Contact You!
Enter Your Zip Code: