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Re: why does my husband
05/01/07 03:00 AM
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From what I've read about your husband, he sounds A LOT like my husband. I am also trying to save my marriage. He always does this sort of thing to me. We have a huge fight, sometimes he leaves, and then he calls me. He'll do the same thing, call in the morning to tell me to have a good day, calls to tell me goodnight. We could be arguing and saying we want a divorce, then he'll say 'you know, I still love you' Anyway my point is, I have read all your posts and I understand exactly what your going through. The only difference is I got unexpectantly pregnant 2 years ago and now we have a 1 year son together. And if we didn't have our son, I have come to the conclusion that it is not worth all the heartache. The only reason that I am trying to make this work now is because of my son. I think that when men do this to us, it is a way of controlling us. I think that they love to have that power over you and they also need that boost of confidence. Like being able to get you into bed even though you've just discussed a divorce. I'm sure that he really does love you, just like I know my husband loves me. But I'm beginning to believe that love's just not enough. There is a lot more involved in making a relationship work than just loving eachother. He needs to show that he is committed to your relationship. Believe I do know how hard it is. But you have to be strong. Don't let a man control your life. I agree with the other replys that you've gotten, you need to make yourself unavailable to him. Get invovled in positive activities and don't be home when he calls. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF and do things to take your mind off of him. Is there anything that you liked to do that he didn't? Take advantage of it and do these things again. He's out having fun with his friends camping and stuff. Don't be sitting around at home waiting for his calls. Do something for yourself! He's having fun, so you need to get out there and have more fun than he is.
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