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Re: Discussion - Alimony
      05/03/07 03:55 PM

Just because only one spouse goes off to work each day, doesn't mean the other spouse has done nothing to contribute to the spouse's successes, salary, and earning potenital.

---> But it also doesn't mean that they have contributed either. It is VERY wrong to assume that one party...SAHP or not, is contributing to the "sucess" of the other party's career. Why not give credit where credit is due? Example...SO does NOT get a raise because I clean the bathroom...he gets a raise because HE worked hard for it. I didn't get a raise because SO hauls the garbage and recyling to the curb, I got because *I* worked hard for it.

Afterall, how does a person work full-time, work overtime, travel for work extensively, climb the corportate ladder without any complications, with young kids at home?

---> Often times, a wage earner HAS to increase their workload BECAUSE they are the only wage earner and need to make up for the loss of the second income. Should they be penalized?

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* Discussion - Alimony Gecko 05/03/07 02:40 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony TGSM   05/06/07 12:12 AM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/06/07 11:51 AM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony TGSM   05/06/07 01:18 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/06/07 02:06 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony TGSM   05/06/07 03:25 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/06/07 06:33 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony TGSM   05/06/07 07:40 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony txks1151   05/06/07 04:34 PM
. * * methinks her defrauding is reason to call hotline matart1   05/07/07 06:46 AM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Rebecca5   05/06/07 07:08 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Relayer   05/06/07 07:32 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Rebecca5   05/06/07 07:47 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Relayer   05/06/07 06:32 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/06/07 12:00 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/06/07 12:42 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Redlegg   05/06/07 01:02 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/06/07 12:55 PM
. * * One question, and a statement... gr8Dad   05/04/07 02:44 AM
. * * Re: One question, and a statement... Gecko   05/04/07 11:16 AM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony nrvouswrk   05/03/07 03:51 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 05:08 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 04:01 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony nrvouswrk   05/03/07 04:26 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony spinnerdegrassi   05/03/07 04:44 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 04:56 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 05:23 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony spinnerdegrassi   05/03/07 05:06 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 04:59 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 04:48 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony trophywife   05/03/07 04:50 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony BeckaLeigh   05/04/07 11:43 AM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 05:21 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony spinnerdegrassi   05/03/07 04:54 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 04:30 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony yregna   05/17/07 06:24 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony rosie716   05/22/07 06:36 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 05:18 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 05:12 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony nrvouswrk   05/03/07 05:21 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony matart1   05/03/07 04:42 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony changes   05/03/07 04:34 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 04:36 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony changes   05/03/07 05:58 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 05:15 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 04:41 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony BeckaLeigh   05/05/07 01:04 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony nrvouswrk   05/03/07 05:02 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 06:12 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony nrvouswrk   05/03/07 06:18 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 04:52 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 04:55 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 04:59 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 05:06 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 05:09 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony trophywife   05/03/07 04:44 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 04:47 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony changes   05/03/07 04:09 PM
. * * It's not possible to consider Melody   05/03/07 06:16 PM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider Susanf31   05/03/07 09:17 PM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider nrvouswrk   05/03/07 09:24 PM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider onerose   05/04/07 07:55 AM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider nrvouswrk   05/04/07 10:41 AM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider Marie_ss   05/04/07 01:36 PM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider Gecko   05/04/07 02:25 PM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider onerose   05/04/07 08:09 PM
. * * One Rose's comment about Gecko trophywife   05/04/07 08:16 PM
. * * Re: One Rose's comment about Gecko Gecko   05/04/07 09:48 PM
. * * So you don't think I should get SS PhoenixRising   05/05/07 12:07 PM
. * * Re: One Rose's comment about Gecko onerose   05/04/07 08:20 PM
. * * Re: One Rose's comment about Gecko spinnerdegrassi   05/04/07 08:30 PM
. * * Re: One Rose's comment about Gecko spinnerdegrassi   05/04/07 08:19 PM
. * * You calling teachers stupid? Melody   05/05/07 01:43 PM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider changes   05/03/07 06:40 PM
. * * Easy to have such clear hindsight Melody   05/03/07 09:10 PM
. * * Re: Easy to have such clear hindsight changes   05/03/07 09:23 PM
. * * You go way too far Melody   05/05/07 01:39 PM
. * * Re: You go way too far changes   05/05/07 02:51 PM
. * * semantics! Melody   05/05/07 03:01 PM
. * * Re: semantics! changes   05/05/07 03:07 PM
. * * Not worked up at all.... Melody   05/06/07 02:59 AM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider Gecko   05/03/07 06:26 PM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider changes   05/03/07 06:48 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 05:10 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony changes   05/03/07 06:13 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 06:19 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony changes   05/03/07 06:46 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/04/07 11:10 AM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony changes   05/04/07 09:03 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony trophywife   05/03/07 05:11 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony matart1   05/03/07 03:36 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 04:07 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Debbie_L   05/03/07 03:17 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Relayer   05/03/07 09:57 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 03:29 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 03:55 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony trophywife   05/03/07 03:37 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 04:30 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 04:17 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony matart1   05/03/07 03:39 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 03:40 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony trophywife   05/03/07 03:44 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Cabodad   05/24/07 11:24 AM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 03:23 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Debbie_L   05/03/07 03:26 PM

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