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onerose
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Reged: 12/30/05
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Re: It's not possible to consider

05/04/07 07:55 AM

I am one of those that think SS should never be awarded. I have thought about all of the different scenarios and I still can not see it. Yes, even the handicapped child scenario. I could see that both parents have to support the child for life. But how do you deceide which parent? What if they both wanted to stay with the child? What if one parent dies? There are so many what if’s in this situation. Now if one parent wants to pay SS so the other parent could stay with the child. That is great. But the handicapped child is the least likely situation to happen out of all the ones

I will never understand the concept of SS. Ever. I know a lot of you disagree but it is just my opinion. I was raised to take care of myself and my responsibilities. I would feel iky if I took SS money from someone I was divorced from.

I was one of those terrible parents who put the child in day care at 6 weeks old. But they are turning out to be great adults. I would have much rather put them in day care and shown them how to work hard to achieve their goals, than to teach them to take hand outs from anyone. And for me, it would feel like a hand out to take money that I did not work for, from someone that I was married to at one time.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/03/07 02:40 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	TGSM	05/06/07 12:12 AM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/06/07 11:51 AM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	TGSM	05/06/07 01:18 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/06/07 02:06 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	TGSM	05/06/07 03:25 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/06/07 06:33 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	TGSM	05/06/07 07:40 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	txks1151	05/06/07 04:34 PM
methinks her defrauding is reason to call hotline	matart1	05/07/07 06:46 AM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Rebecca5	05/06/07 07:08 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Relayer	05/06/07 07:32 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Rebecca5	05/06/07 07:47 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Relayer	05/06/07 06:32 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Miranda	05/06/07 12:00 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/06/07 12:42 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Redlegg	05/06/07 01:02 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Miranda	05/06/07 12:55 PM
One question, and a statement...	gr8Dad	05/04/07 02:44 AM
Re: One question, and a statement...	Gecko	05/04/07 11:16 AM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	nrvouswrk	05/03/07 03:51 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/03/07 05:08 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Susanf31	05/03/07 04:01 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	nrvouswrk	05/03/07 04:26 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	spinnerdegrassi	05/03/07 04:44 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Susanf31	05/03/07 04:56 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/03/07 05:23 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	spinnerdegrassi	05/03/07 05:06 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Miranda	05/03/07 04:59 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Miranda	05/03/07 04:48 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	trophywife	05/03/07 04:50 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	BeckaLeigh	05/04/07 11:43 AM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/03/07 05:21 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	spinnerdegrassi	05/03/07 04:54 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Susanf31	05/03/07 04:30 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	yregna	05/17/07 06:24 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	rosie716	05/22/07 06:36 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/03/07 05:18 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/03/07 05:12 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	nrvouswrk	05/03/07 05:21 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	matart1	05/03/07 04:42 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	changes	05/03/07 04:34 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Susanf31	05/03/07 04:36 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	changes	05/03/07 05:58 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/03/07 05:15 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Miranda	05/03/07 04:41 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	BeckaLeigh	05/05/07 01:04 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	nrvouswrk	05/03/07 05:02 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Susanf31	05/03/07 06:12 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	nrvouswrk	05/03/07 06:18 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Susanf31	05/03/07 04:52 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Miranda	05/03/07 04:55 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Susanf31	05/03/07 04:59 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Miranda	05/03/07 05:06 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Miranda	05/03/07 05:09 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	trophywife	05/03/07 04:44 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Miranda	05/03/07 04:47 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	changes	05/03/07 04:09 PM
It's not possible to consider	Melody	05/03/07 06:16 PM
Re: It's not possible to consider	Susanf31	05/03/07 09:17 PM
Re: It's not possible to consider	nrvouswrk	05/03/07 09:24 PM
Re: It's not possible to consider	onerose	05/04/07 07:55 AM
Re: It's not possible to consider	nrvouswrk	05/04/07 10:41 AM
Re: It's not possible to consider	Marie_ss	05/04/07 01:36 PM
Re: It's not possible to consider	Gecko	05/04/07 02:25 PM
Re: It's not possible to consider	onerose	05/04/07 08:09 PM
One Rose's comment about Gecko	trophywife	05/04/07 08:16 PM
Re: One Rose's comment about Gecko	Gecko	05/04/07 09:48 PM
So you don't think I should get SS	PhoenixRising	05/05/07 12:07 PM
Re: One Rose's comment about Gecko	onerose	05/04/07 08:20 PM
Re: One Rose's comment about Gecko	spinnerdegrassi	05/04/07 08:30 PM
Re: One Rose's comment about Gecko	spinnerdegrassi	05/04/07 08:19 PM
You calling teachers stupid?	Melody	05/05/07 01:43 PM
Re: It's not possible to consider	changes	05/03/07 06:40 PM
Easy to have such clear hindsight	Melody	05/03/07 09:10 PM
Re: Easy to have such clear hindsight	changes	05/03/07 09:23 PM
You go way too far	Melody	05/05/07 01:39 PM
Re: You go way too far	changes	05/05/07 02:51 PM
semantics!	Melody	05/05/07 03:01 PM
Re: semantics!	changes	05/05/07 03:07 PM
Not worked up at all....	Melody	05/06/07 02:59 AM
Re: It's not possible to consider	Gecko	05/03/07 06:26 PM
Re: It's not possible to consider	changes	05/03/07 06:48 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/03/07 05:10 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	changes	05/03/07 06:13 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/03/07 06:19 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	changes	05/03/07 06:46 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/04/07 11:10 AM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	changes	05/04/07 09:03 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	trophywife	05/03/07 05:11 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	matart1	05/03/07 03:36 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/03/07 04:07 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Debbie_L	05/03/07 03:17 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Relayer	05/03/07 09:57 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Susanf31	05/03/07 03:29 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/03/07 03:55 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	trophywife	05/03/07 03:37 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Miranda	05/03/07 04:30 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/03/07 04:17 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	matart1	05/03/07 03:39 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Susanf31	05/03/07 03:40 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	trophywife	05/03/07 03:44 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Cabodad	05/24/07 11:24 AM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Gecko	05/03/07 03:23 PM
Re: Discussion - Alimony	Debbie_L	05/03/07 03:26 PM

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