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Gecko
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Re: An absolute nightmare day...

05/04/07 12:29 PM

Now the shocker. He said she hinted to him that she lied about the abuse, but would continue it, and get even worse if we did not give her what she wanted. Okay, I flipped (not in her presence). We are being blackmailed by a 16 year old.

---> And therein lies one of the greatest problems in our society...that our children have THAT much power. Like just about everything else...we go from trying to do something right, to going to extremes. I remember back in the mid-80s...a friend of mine's son want to go to the park with his friend, Mom said "no", that he needed to clean his room and then we (all) were going to the park for a picnic as planned. Well...that wasn't want HE wanted, so he told his Mom that if she didn't let him go NOW...he was going to call CPS and say that she hit him and she would go to jail. My friend was in shock...I looked at the kid and said "Fine...call CPS...but AFTER you clean your room. Then when they take you away with nothing but the clothes on your back and put you in a foster home where you can share a room with a bunch of other boys, we'll be at the park having a great time. And oh...by the way...you make that call and there is NO going back."

---> Sadly, you did what you had to do and the best you could under the circumstances. I would get it IN WRITING from the therapist that she admitted that she lied about the abuse and that she will continue to do so to get "her way".

---> Also...if things don't work out with your mom and she's still a little b*tch...then give her a choice...home with a family that loves her or the JUVENILE SYSTEM.

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An absolute nightmare day...	gr8Dad	05/04/07 03:29 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Runswithscissors	05/05/07 10:15 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	focusedon2	05/04/07 10:11 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	JulieLynn	05/04/07 08:22 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Renee	05/04/07 08:05 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Spring	05/04/07 03:34 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	KiwiGirl	05/04/07 03:11 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	KrazyKat	05/04/07 02:54 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Gecko	05/04/07 12:29 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Miranda	05/04/07 11:47 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	gr8Dad	05/05/07 12:54 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	BB1	05/04/07 11:45 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	PhoenixRising	05/04/07 12:49 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Debbie_L	05/04/07 01:06 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	leegirl	05/04/07 08:37 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Susanf31	05/04/07 08:55 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Gecko	05/04/07 01:46 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	jil_stevens	05/04/07 07:37 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Debbie_L	05/04/07 01:57 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Susanf31	05/04/07 03:11 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Gecko	05/04/07 02:07 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	gr8Dad	05/05/07 12:58 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	M5M5	05/04/07 03:46 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Susanf31	05/04/07 04:49 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Gecko	05/04/07 05:24 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	nrvouswrk	05/04/07 05:35 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Gecko	05/04/07 05:38 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	M5M5	05/04/07 05:09 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Susanf31	05/04/07 05:13 PM
And lets not let the FACTS get in the way, huh?	gr8Dad	05/05/07 01:07 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	M5M5	05/04/07 06:11 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	agui667	05/04/07 06:13 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	M5M5	05/04/07 06:21 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	agui667	05/04/07 06:26 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	elliesmom	05/04/07 06:50 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Rebecca5	05/04/07 06:55 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Renee	05/04/07 09:51 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	M5M5	05/04/07 06:45 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	agui667	05/04/07 07:24 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	M5M5	05/04/07 07:43 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	katiefedup	05/04/07 07:56 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	M5M5	05/04/07 08:15 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	katiefedup	05/04/07 08:21 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Gecko	05/04/07 10:08 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	katiefedup	05/04/07 10:12 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Gecko	05/05/07 06:41 PM
I will clarify...	gr8Dad	05/05/07 01:36 AM
Re: I will clarify...	Buckeye	05/05/07 07:04 AM
Re: I will clarify...	jimmie	05/05/07 06:55 PM
Re: I will clarify...	Buckeye	05/06/07 07:04 AM
Re: I will clarify...	jimmie	05/06/07 07:19 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	M5M5	05/04/07 08:26 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	katiefedup	05/04/07 08:33 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	katiefedup	05/04/07 08:45 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Buckeye	05/04/07 09:00 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	katiefedup	05/04/07 09:08 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Rebecca5	05/04/07 05:21 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	wahoo	05/16/07 11:31 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Gecko	05/04/07 05:37 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	M5M5	05/04/07 06:16 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	agui667	05/04/07 04:09 PM
Yeah, "freeken boot camp lifestyle"...	gr8Dad	05/05/07 01:01 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Gecko	05/04/07 04:48 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	agui667	05/04/07 06:09 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	M5M5	05/04/07 05:05 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	M5M5	05/04/07 04:12 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	agui667	05/04/07 04:22 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	M5M5	05/04/07 05:05 PM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	nrvouswrk	05/04/07 09:59 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	elliesmom	05/04/07 11:16 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Debbie_L	05/04/07 11:40 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Avaya	05/04/07 08:31 AM
Ugggh… teenagers…	PhoenixRising	05/04/07 08:25 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Grace	05/04/07 08:15 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	Debi	05/04/07 07:46 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	preemiemom	05/04/07 08:23 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	matart1	05/04/07 07:27 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	BeckaLeigh	05/04/07 07:16 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	rocketgirl	05/04/07 06:17 AM
It is my stepdaughter...	gr8Dad	05/04/07 06:22 AM
Re: It is my stepdaughter...	rocketgirl	05/04/07 06:23 AM
Re: An absolute nightmare day...	MommyAlisha	05/04/07 06:00 AM

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