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Re: Discussion - Alimony
      05/06/07 06:32 PM

[quote]Example in my current alimony situation..

My Ex gets $1900/mo from me. I pay the Mortgage and her car payment, she gets about $510 a month in cash. She also gets $650 a month in SSI.

She has no bills besides Power, Car insurance ($100) and Phone. ($65).

No other bills, I got stuck with them all.

So she has abotu $700+ a month to live on. She could/can live on that while she finds a job and gets up to speed. Her alimony only ends if she remarries prior to April 2011.

But, instead of setting herself up for long term success, she is "fire-saleing" off the house and car, to get more cash a month. That way she can live well without working.

(this is what she told my father last week)

So instead of using my money to better herself, I believe her plan is to live well, string boyfriend along until near the end of the alimony (4 more years) and then marry the next sucker who will support her lazy behind.

But, I'm biased and jaded that she has more money than me every month (taking her SSI into account
) and does not lift a freaking finger for it. [/quote]


SSI is a needs based program and at $500+ a month with no living expenses, she does not qualify and it defrauding the government.

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* Discussion - Alimony Gecko 05/03/07 02:40 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony TGSM   05/06/07 12:12 AM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/06/07 11:51 AM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony TGSM   05/06/07 01:18 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/06/07 02:06 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony TGSM   05/06/07 03:25 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/06/07 06:33 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony TGSM   05/06/07 07:40 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony txks1151   05/06/07 04:34 PM
. * * methinks her defrauding is reason to call hotline matart1   05/07/07 06:46 AM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Rebecca5   05/06/07 07:08 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Relayer   05/06/07 07:32 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Rebecca5   05/06/07 07:47 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Relayer   05/06/07 06:32 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/06/07 12:00 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/06/07 12:42 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Redlegg   05/06/07 01:02 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/06/07 12:55 PM
. * * One question, and a statement... gr8Dad   05/04/07 02:44 AM
. * * Re: One question, and a statement... Gecko   05/04/07 11:16 AM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony nrvouswrk   05/03/07 03:51 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 05:08 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 04:01 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony nrvouswrk   05/03/07 04:26 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony spinnerdegrassi   05/03/07 04:44 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 04:56 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 05:23 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony spinnerdegrassi   05/03/07 05:06 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 04:59 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 04:48 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony trophywife   05/03/07 04:50 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony BeckaLeigh   05/04/07 11:43 AM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 05:21 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony spinnerdegrassi   05/03/07 04:54 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 04:30 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony yregna   05/17/07 06:24 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony rosie716   05/22/07 06:36 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 05:18 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 05:12 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony nrvouswrk   05/03/07 05:21 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony matart1   05/03/07 04:42 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony changes   05/03/07 04:34 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 04:36 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony changes   05/03/07 05:58 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 05:15 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 04:41 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony BeckaLeigh   05/05/07 01:04 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony nrvouswrk   05/03/07 05:02 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 06:12 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony nrvouswrk   05/03/07 06:18 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 04:52 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 04:55 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 04:59 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 05:06 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 05:09 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony trophywife   05/03/07 04:44 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 04:47 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony changes   05/03/07 04:09 PM
. * * It's not possible to consider Melody   05/03/07 06:16 PM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider Susanf31   05/03/07 09:17 PM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider nrvouswrk   05/03/07 09:24 PM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider onerose   05/04/07 07:55 AM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider nrvouswrk   05/04/07 10:41 AM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider Marie_ss   05/04/07 01:36 PM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider Gecko   05/04/07 02:25 PM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider onerose   05/04/07 08:09 PM
. * * One Rose's comment about Gecko trophywife   05/04/07 08:16 PM
. * * Re: One Rose's comment about Gecko Gecko   05/04/07 09:48 PM
. * * So you don't think I should get SS PhoenixRising   05/05/07 12:07 PM
. * * Re: One Rose's comment about Gecko onerose   05/04/07 08:20 PM
. * * Re: One Rose's comment about Gecko spinnerdegrassi   05/04/07 08:30 PM
. * * Re: One Rose's comment about Gecko spinnerdegrassi   05/04/07 08:19 PM
. * * You calling teachers stupid? Melody   05/05/07 01:43 PM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider changes   05/03/07 06:40 PM
. * * Easy to have such clear hindsight Melody   05/03/07 09:10 PM
. * * Re: Easy to have such clear hindsight changes   05/03/07 09:23 PM
. * * You go way too far Melody   05/05/07 01:39 PM
. * * Re: You go way too far changes   05/05/07 02:51 PM
. * * semantics! Melody   05/05/07 03:01 PM
. * * Re: semantics! changes   05/05/07 03:07 PM
. * * Not worked up at all.... Melody   05/06/07 02:59 AM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider Gecko   05/03/07 06:26 PM
. * * Re: It's not possible to consider changes   05/03/07 06:48 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 05:10 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony changes   05/03/07 06:13 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 06:19 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony changes   05/03/07 06:46 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/04/07 11:10 AM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony changes   05/04/07 09:03 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony trophywife   05/03/07 05:11 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony matart1   05/03/07 03:36 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 04:07 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Debbie_L   05/03/07 03:17 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Relayer   05/03/07 09:57 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 03:29 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 03:55 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony trophywife   05/03/07 03:37 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Miranda   05/03/07 04:30 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 04:17 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony matart1   05/03/07 03:39 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Susanf31   05/03/07 03:40 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony trophywife   05/03/07 03:44 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Cabodad   05/24/07 11:24 AM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Gecko   05/03/07 03:23 PM
. * * Re: Discussion - Alimony Debbie_L   05/03/07 03:26 PM

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