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Susanf31
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Re: Alimony in Indiana?

05/24/07 01:19 PM

I don't think that he's necessarily just "playing nice" to get her to accept what he offers. I think she knows her husband well enough to know he's a decent guy. Not everyone is the same.
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No, not everyone is the same. But I've been in her similar situation. My ex was being so nice to me as he was showing me the spreadsheet he had created...how he was going to give me a few hundred a month and I was going to live in Section 8 housing, he had even seen the apartment... and work 2 jobs and blah, blah, blah. he wasn't so nice after he starting realizing that he wasn't living in reality.

Same with my ex-mother-in-law. She was still in love with her ex and hoping he'd come back to her. So she took almost nothing in the divorce. He also didn't pay his CS and she didn't pursue him for it. So, she spent her life and her children's life living in poverty because she wanted to remain "friends" with her ex. She was afraid if she ticked him off, he'd never come back to her. So sad. He was never going to come back to her...just played her with the "friendship" card so she wouldn't pursue him for money.

Poster, just be careful you don't fall into that trap.

Your H may sound kind and generous now, but when he remarries he's not going to feel as kind and generous anymore, so make sure you get all agreements in writing!

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Alimony in Indiana?	christine220	05/21/07 06:33 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	googledad	05/21/07 07:54 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/22/07 10:10 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	christine220	05/22/07 02:15 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/22/07 02:48 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Relayer	05/22/07 05:41 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/23/07 09:15 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Relayer	05/23/07 11:03 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/23/07 09:12 AM
Yeah, but HE...	gr8Dad	05/23/07 11:03 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	christine220	05/22/07 06:27 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	googledad	05/22/07 10:02 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	christine220	05/22/07 11:14 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Relayer	05/23/07 06:17 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/23/07 09:18 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Relayer	05/23/07 12:23 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/23/07 12:30 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	yregna	05/24/07 04:41 PM
yregna	trophywife	05/24/07 11:17 PM
Re: yregna	Maury	05/25/07 12:10 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	googledad	05/24/07 07:24 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/25/07 07:33 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	googledad	05/25/07 03:23 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/25/07 04:49 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	googledad	05/25/07 05:01 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/26/07 03:02 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	googledad	05/26/07 11:30 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Relayer	05/26/07 03:20 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/27/07 11:59 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	googledad	05/28/07 12:19 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	christine220	05/28/07 12:35 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	googledad	05/28/07 12:46 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	christine220	05/28/07 12:56 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Relayer	05/28/07 07:34 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Miranda	05/27/07 04:05 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	spinnerdegrassi	05/25/07 05:33 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	trophywife	05/25/07 07:39 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	rocketgirl	05/25/07 01:20 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/25/07 01:31 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	spinnerdegrassi	05/25/07 07:40 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/25/07 08:55 AM
Susanf: Now she should have similar opportunities	trophywife	05/25/07 08:59 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	trophywife	05/25/07 07:43 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Relayer	05/25/07 11:36 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	spinnerdegrassi	05/25/07 11:42 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/25/07 11:53 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Relayer	05/25/07 12:05 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	spinnerdegrassi	05/25/07 11:58 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/25/07 12:17 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	spinnerdegrassi	05/25/07 12:39 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/25/07 01:04 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Rebecca5	05/25/07 01:22 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/25/07 01:24 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Miranda	05/25/07 04:39 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Rebecca5	05/25/07 01:32 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/25/07 02:55 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Rebecca5	05/25/07 05:44 PM
Google Dad and Equitable Distribution	trophywife	05/26/07 09:40 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/25/07 01:06 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	spinnerdegrassi	05/25/07 01:16 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/25/07 01:23 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	spinnerdegrassi	05/25/07 01:35 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/25/07 02:53 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Rebecca5	05/25/07 12:54 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	spinnerdegrassi	05/25/07 07:38 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/25/07 08:54 AM
The difference is...	gr8Dad	05/25/07 09:09 AM
Re: The difference is...	Susanf31	05/25/07 09:31 AM
Re: The difference is...	Miranda	05/25/07 04:28 PM
Re: The difference is...	trophywife	05/25/07 09:11 AM
And she will get child support...	gr8Dad	05/25/07 09:23 AM
Re: And she will get child support...	Susanf31	05/25/07 09:37 AM
I was mistaken, she didn't say it...	gr8Dad	05/25/07 11:29 AM
Re: I was mistaken, she didn't say it...	Susanf31	05/25/07 11:40 AM
She CAN'T...	gr8Dad	05/25/07 11:54 AM
Re: She CAN'T...	katiefedup	05/25/07 12:22 PM
Do you agree with that...	gr8Dad	05/25/07 12:35 PM
Re: I was mistaken, she didn't say it...	spinnerdegrassi	05/25/07 11:30 AM
Re: I was mistaken, she didn't say it...	Susanf31	05/25/07 11:41 AM
Re: And she will get child support...	spinnerdegrassi	05/25/07 11:12 AM
Re: And she will get child support...	Susanf31	05/25/07 11:19 AM
Re: And she will get child support...	spinnerdegrassi	05/25/07 11:23 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	googledad	05/24/07 07:59 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Relayer	05/23/07 12:35 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/23/07 12:38 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Relayer	05/23/07 01:18 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/23/07 01:24 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	christine220	05/23/07 05:19 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/24/07 09:06 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Debbie_L	05/24/07 12:41 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/24/07 01:19 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	trophywife	05/24/07 01:50 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Relayer	05/23/07 01:48 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	christine220	05/23/07 02:25 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	onerose	05/23/07 03:44 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	christine220	05/23/07 05:16 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	christine220	05/23/07 04:20 PM
How, exactly...	gr8Dad	05/23/07 11:04 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	christine220	05/23/07 06:54 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Miranda	05/23/07 08:32 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	christine220	05/23/07 12:07 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	googledad	05/22/07 05:45 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Miranda	05/22/07 09:52 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	nrvouswrk	05/22/07 05:59 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/23/07 09:16 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Relayer	05/23/07 11:04 AM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	christine220	05/23/07 12:17 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	googledad	05/22/07 04:20 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	Susanf31	05/22/07 04:52 PM
Re: Alimony in Indiana?	tsl	05/21/07 06:59 PM

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