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Re: Moving Out of Family Home
      05/28/07 03:31 PM

We both are nice people and would not fight or yell, especially in front of the kids. Both of us are fair people. Neither have someone or something waiting and there is no hurry, but why waste time and money. It seems court battles also would increase hostility and not make for more peace.

Thanks for the suggestions, you guys help more than you know.

I do have an attorney who filed for me and is working very close to me. We are waiting on something from her and her attorney and she has told me it will be an order to move out.

I said "we paid" even though I do make the majority of money. There are no custody issues that I can think of. I think she will be fair. There are no money issues at this point. I think she will be fair. I will be fair on both and I think she knows that, but there is some distrust on her part, I guess I may have some soon, but for now I don't. I know what could happen, but am trying to figure out a way to make it uncontested. I have given her 4 or 5 proposals that I think are in the neighborhood of fair and asked her to consult her attorney with them to make sure that I was not being unfair. I just want a proposal from her to see if she can be in the neighborhood of fair before it all gets out of hand. If in the end, it is all the same why drag it out.

By the way, the attorney she picked asked for 3K retainer, mine 1,500. She ought to be well represented and be able to come up with what would be a fair settlement.

I just don't understand, why she has to kick me out and get a temporary settlement. Why not just work at a real settlement and an uncontested. I just hate to waste time and money. Why fight?

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