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JustMeAndThree
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Re: and he says *I*'m the one out running around .....

05/29/07 01:02 PM

I agree with you and know EXACTLY where you are coming from. In my situation it's doubtful that he will move becuase this is "his" area. *I* chose to stay here so the kids could be close to there dad even though I have no family or friends remotely close by, I have other reasons too, like the area is good, schools are good etc. He talks a good talk about being a good dad but doens't alway walk the walk. I think sometimes he does things to or for the kids (good or bad) just out of spite for me. As for being exhausted and not taking care of yourself. I COMPLETELY understand. He barely lifted a finger during the ENTIRE marriage unless it was something he WANTED to do. *I* did the childcare, housework, shopping, money management etc. So that worked out in my favor in this split but it leaves for one EXTREMELY exhausted mother. Even still now that I don't have the little bit of help he DID give (like taking the kids out side while I did housework) it's really overwhelming and I'm COSTANTLY exhausted. It's gotten better since the days of being so exhuasted I was physically ill trying to care for an infant and chase a toddler but I still have days where I have to choose : sleep or shower?

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and he says I'm the one out running around .....	JustMeAndThree	05/28/07 02:30 PM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	Debi	05/29/07 07:48 AM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	JustMeAndThree	05/29/07 10:50 AM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	Rebecca5	05/28/07 03:18 PM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	JustMeAndThree	05/28/07 04:00 PM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	Avaya	05/29/07 04:09 PM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	JustMeAndThree	05/29/07 05:18 PM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	Cabodad	05/29/07 10:13 PM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	CiCi	05/30/07 08:53 AM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	Debi	05/30/07 01:01 PM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	JustMeAndThree	05/30/07 03:08 PM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	cache	05/30/07 07:03 PM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	JustMeAndThree	05/30/07 09:05 AM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	cache	05/30/07 12:55 PM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	JustMeAndThree	05/30/07 07:25 AM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	PhoenixRising	05/28/07 03:08 PM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	CiCi	05/29/07 09:05 AM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	JustMeAndThree	05/29/07 10:58 AM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	onmyownnow	05/29/07 12:19 PM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	CiCi	05/29/07 12:39 PM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	JustMeAndThree	05/29/07 01:02 PM
Re: and he says I'm the one out running around .....	Renee	05/28/07 03:00 PM

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