PhoenixRising
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 01/05/07
Posts: 3681
Loc: New York
|
Re: the live-in boyfriend..
06/14/07 11:49 PM
|
|
|
“they want my new boyfriend in my life they want him in our lives should i say!”
They may also want ice cream for breakfast.
It is not a good idea to abdicate grown-up decisions to the children.
If “everyday my kids are happy”, I would be very concerned that I was not parenting properly.
If your BF is capable of making “grown-up” decisions then he will find himself another apartment, he will be understanding of the fact that you are still another man’s wife, he will continue to be supportive of you.
If your question is why can your stbx have a GF and “flaunt” her at family functions while you are being censured for wanting a live-in BF. The answer is because you are the one with physical custody of the children. You are the one, who wants to retain custody. You will be held to a higher standard.
Can you see that there is no lost “opportunity”? If your BF is a keeper, he will still be around and can move in, two years from now when your divorce is final.
No one is suggesting that you postpone your life. You deserve to have a handsome beau and a nice long lovely courtship. Enjoy the romance of it. Be a good role model for your children.
Nobody was trying to pick on you but it is very hard to read your posts.
You never use punctuation which should include commas, apostrophes, AND periods.
You have a thing for run-on sentences and you never capitalize.
oppertunity s/b opportunity (you spelt this one wrong so many times). faulnt … maybe you meant flaunt? benifit s/b benefit, postpne s/b postpone etc…
It would be clearer and easier if you didn’t write like this was a text message.
--------------------
Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. --Plato
|
|
0 registered and 0 anonymous users are browsing this forum.
Moderator:
|
Forum Permissions
You cannot start new topics
You cannot reply to topics
HTML is disabled
UBBCode is enabled
|
Rating:
Thread views: 10657
|
|
|
|
|
|
UBB.threads™ 6.5.1.1
|
Easily Connect With a Lawyer or Mediator
Have Divorce Professionals from Your Area Contact You!
|
|
|
|
|
The information contained on this page is not to be considered legal advice.
A local counsel or professional should always be consulted in regards to any legal matters.
"a passion for a better divorce℠" - established in 1996
© 1996 - 2013 Divorce Source, Inc. All Rights Reserved.
Previous
Index
Next
Flat
Edit
Reply
Quote
