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You have been divorced for 4 years and you are still trying to control your ex-wife???

Do you not get the "ex" part??

Maybe it is "true love", maybe it is "great sex"... What it not is: "Any of your business"!

Sorry, don't mean to be harsh but really you need to get a life...

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I think it is his business. Anything that could affect the safety of his children is his business.

It is impossible to really know someone in 2 months. Heck, it's impossible to really know someone in 20 years. 2 months - absurd.

If a single person wants to shack up with someone she just met, that might be stupid and unsafe, but it is truly her business only.

But when she has children, she has a responsibility to make sure the person who she will shut her children in with is safe, sane, and responsible.

Would you say it's reasonable for a woman to decide to have a child with someone she only knew for 2 months? If he turned around and dropped her 2 months later, any one would probably say "what was she thinking?". This is a woman who is moving this man in with her children. It's like having a child with a man you just met - better in that he will have no custody rights, worse in that she won't have 9 months to observe his behavior BEFORE he is alone with her kids.

I think the poster has every right to be concerned. He has my sympathy.

Can he do anything about it? No. If the woman has no sense, she has no sense. It's as if she leaves her doors unlocked at night and lives in NY city and says she feels safe and feels her children are safe and nothing has ever happened so it is safe. Is that attitude in the best interest of her children? No. Can he do anything about it? Probably not.

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