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mlh53
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Re: how often to you think of divorce?

08/05/05 08:23 AM

Hi Bacall,

It's been 4 years since the X walked for OW and 2 since we've been legally divorced. Consequently, I rarely think about it anymore, except during holidays or when I have to deal directly with the X. Or ocassionally out of the blue. The few times I do, I actually shudder sometimes. This happens when a trigger hits and I'm reminded of the cheating, the lies, or the nasty, patronizing way he treated me. Then I wonder how I put up with it for over 20 years. However, I don't let myself linger on this for long as there's really no upside to do so. Life is too short to dwell on the past or any of the negatives of our lives. It's much more productive to think positive, about the present, and plan for the future.

Melanie

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
how often to you think of divorce?	bacall	08/03/05 03:47 PM
Re: how often to you think of divorce?	passem	08/27/05 09:30 PM
Re: how often to you think of divorce?	sandflea	09/08/05 02:37 PM
Re: how often to you think of divorce?	lucky44	08/10/05 03:07 AM
Re: how often to you think of divorce?	NancyD	08/10/05 08:09 AM
Re: how often to you think of divorce?	mlh53	08/05/05 08:23 AM
Re: how often to you think of divorce?	Terri1	08/05/05 09:12 AM
Re: how often to you think of divorce?	chalong	08/09/05 01:15 PM
I don't think about it much any more	Melody	08/03/05 11:44 PM
Re: how often to you think of divorce?	KiwiGirl	08/03/05 07:11 PM
Re: how often to you think of divorce?	Annie7676	08/03/05 07:41 PM
Re: how often to you think of divorce?	Karen1	08/03/05 05:51 PM

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