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Re: Changing Names after Divorce
      07/03/07 11:37 AM

"I had a concern that since her last name was my stbx's last name that she'd try to give THAT last name to the new child. THAT would be a no-no, wouldn't it? I mean, I guess it's "legal" but morally that'd just be super super super tacky no?"

PM,
I STRONGLY disagree w/ you..

When I married; his name BECAME mine for better for worse.. until death... It is MY name. It has been my name for most of my life. If I have a child, I will give it MY name.

The fact that it is also his name; is just a coincidence at this point. Just like the two Smiths in my son's class this year aren't related. This child would not be related to that branch..

Yes, some might think that everyone was related because in my case, it is a pretty unique name.. BUT be it what it may... IT is MY name! If he doesn't like it; he can legally change his name.. BUT this is my name, my children's name, my family name..

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* Changing Names after Divorce ssmom79 07/02/07 12:38 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce rocki   07/08/07 09:24 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Relayer   07/09/07 03:52 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce NancyD   07/11/07 08:41 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce preemiemom   07/10/07 08:41 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/09/07 10:04 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Redlegg   07/10/07 07:07 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/10/07 09:02 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Redlegg   07/10/07 09:56 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/11/07 01:37 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Miranda   07/02/07 05:22 PM
. * * I was told that only the Melody   07/03/07 02:26 PM
. * * Re: I was told that only the Miranda   07/03/07 03:11 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce ssmom79   07/02/07 08:03 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/02/07 08:21 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce ssmom79   07/03/07 08:06 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce preemiemom   07/03/07 09:04 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce sally1234   07/08/07 09:18 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Debi   07/06/07 11:09 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Debbie_L   07/05/07 02:51 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/03/07 05:50 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce RJ1   07/03/07 01:55 PM
. * * Why not? almostheaven   07/03/07 05:44 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Miranda   07/03/07 02:10 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce PhoenixRising   07/03/07 11:37 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce momathome   07/06/07 11:36 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce 1smartcookie   10/23/07 11:21 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce PhoenixRising   07/07/07 10:02 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce preemiemom   07/07/07 08:19 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Miranda   07/07/07 12:23 PM
. * * But remember PR... preemiemom   07/05/07 12:11 PM
. * * Re: But remember PR... RJ1   07/05/07 12:26 PM
. * * Re: But remember PR... preemiemom   07/05/07 12:35 PM
. * * Re: But remember PR... RJ1   07/05/07 12:57 PM
. * * Re: But remember PR... nrvouswrk   07/05/07 02:21 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Miranda   07/03/07 02:13 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce youngatheart   07/04/07 01:43 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Miranda   07/04/07 09:49 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Redlegg   07/04/07 09:41 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/05/07 01:18 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Redlegg   07/05/07 07:16 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/05/07 02:52 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Redlegg   07/05/07 04:19 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Relayer   07/04/07 06:34 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce PhoenixRising   07/03/07 07:51 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce preemiemom   07/05/07 12:32 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce TGSM   07/04/07 06:37 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce PhoenixRising   07/04/07 06:58 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Miranda   07/04/07 08:05 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce PhoenixRising   07/04/07 11:24 PM
. * * Her choice... almostheaven   07/02/07 04:56 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce matart1   07/02/07 01:31 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce ssmom79   07/02/07 01:36 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/02/07 04:58 PM

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