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Re: Changing Names after Divorce
      07/03/07 05:50 PM

Considering the number of divorces that take place these days, its not uncommon to have kids with different last names in the same family. Some parents may not be fond of that and may want to try and keep them all the same. That may be a reason why your ex's ex wanted to name her second child the same.

When I was divorcing my second husband, my daughter (then 12) asked me if I was going to go back to my last married name. When I told her I hadn't planned to change my name at all, she told me that she wished I would cause she hated that we'd had different last names for years. Said kids at school kept asking who I was and she had to explain I was her mom...since when my name was said, it wasn't the same as hers. So I decided to go ahead and change it back during the divorce.

Now my daughter just went through a divorce about a month ago. Learning from mom, she took the no contest route. Much simpler and no sense dragging it out. She however kept her married name for two reasons. Not wanting to change her DL and SS card, and everything else (which was why I wasn't initially going to change my name), and...because of all of her dad's deeds as of recent, she wanted nothing to do with him, especially having his name.

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* Changing Names after Divorce ssmom79 07/02/07 12:38 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce rocki   07/08/07 09:24 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Relayer   07/09/07 03:52 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce NancyD   07/11/07 08:41 AM
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. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/09/07 10:04 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Redlegg   07/10/07 07:07 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/10/07 09:02 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Redlegg   07/10/07 09:56 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/11/07 01:37 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Miranda   07/02/07 05:22 PM
. * * I was told that only the Melody   07/03/07 02:26 PM
. * * Re: I was told that only the Miranda   07/03/07 03:11 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce ssmom79   07/02/07 08:03 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/02/07 08:21 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce ssmom79   07/03/07 08:06 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce preemiemom   07/03/07 09:04 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce sally1234   07/08/07 09:18 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Debi   07/06/07 11:09 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Debbie_L   07/05/07 02:51 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/03/07 05:50 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce RJ1   07/03/07 01:55 PM
. * * Why not? almostheaven   07/03/07 05:44 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Miranda   07/03/07 02:10 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce PhoenixRising   07/03/07 11:37 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce momathome   07/06/07 11:36 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce 1smartcookie   10/23/07 11:21 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce PhoenixRising   07/07/07 10:02 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce preemiemom   07/07/07 08:19 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Miranda   07/07/07 12:23 PM
. * * But remember PR... preemiemom   07/05/07 12:11 PM
. * * Re: But remember PR... RJ1   07/05/07 12:26 PM
. * * Re: But remember PR... preemiemom   07/05/07 12:35 PM
. * * Re: But remember PR... RJ1   07/05/07 12:57 PM
. * * Re: But remember PR... nrvouswrk   07/05/07 02:21 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Miranda   07/03/07 02:13 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce youngatheart   07/04/07 01:43 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Miranda   07/04/07 09:49 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Redlegg   07/04/07 09:41 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/05/07 01:18 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Redlegg   07/05/07 07:16 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/05/07 02:52 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Redlegg   07/05/07 04:19 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Relayer   07/04/07 06:34 AM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce PhoenixRising   07/03/07 07:51 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce preemiemom   07/05/07 12:32 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce TGSM   07/04/07 06:37 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce PhoenixRising   07/04/07 06:58 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce Miranda   07/04/07 08:05 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce PhoenixRising   07/04/07 11:24 PM
. * * Her choice... almostheaven   07/02/07 04:56 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce matart1   07/02/07 01:31 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce ssmom79   07/02/07 01:36 PM
. * * Re: Changing Names after Divorce almostheaven   07/02/07 04:58 PM

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