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Honestly dude -you really are so entrenched in bitterness that there is no debating you. The reality is that I am out $ no matter what. I might as well make a bad situation as good as I can to live w/ my family and future rather than turn it into more of a nightmare. If you let the dark side take hold, it only makes you look back and not forward.

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Seriously dude, yes yrenga comes off as radical and he is but honestly, you need to protect yourself now or down the line you will be sorry. In your situation, the odds are grim and unfortunately, divorce tends to bring out the worst in people. Most here will agree "the one they loved" suddently turned into a raving lunatic..a "person they never knew"..that is a sorry fact in a lot of divorces..if divorces went as planned and were fair and there were no problems, Divorce Source wouldn't exist. You have a stbx who hasn't worked much, wants the kids, will get the house and you make decent dough..this IS NOT GOING TO TURN OUT WELL..believe me...

I blame a lot of it on lawyers, who whip their clients up into quite a frenzy (on both sides). Going into your first divorce, you absoultely need an attorney. Never go pro se until you at least learn some of the code of civil procedure..you WILL be HOSED otherwise...

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GO CUBBIES!!!!

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