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Re: Selfishness
      07/22/07 05:19 PM

"These people somehow have justified their behavior because it was best for them at the time and they believe they are owed something for hanging in there and somehow compromising their life being married. And now they live in the land of OZ"

A true-er statement has never been said. That is exactly his justification!

He feels he has sacrificed his "life" for others. And now that the time he has left on earth is short (he ACTUALLY wrote that to me once!) He deserves to be able to do something for himself.

The trial didn't go the way he planned. He now claims that I have "ruined" his life. His OZ bubble has burst and somehow that is all my fault also.

He is very angry unhappy person. He now considers himself the victim in all this. He further vilifies me, because I refuse to feel sorry for him.

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* Selfishness CiCi 07/22/07 09:28 AM
. * * Re: Selfishness NancyD   07/23/07 07:27 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness yregna   07/23/07 02:06 PM
. * * Balderdash! Curmudgeon   07/23/07 07:47 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness LadyBugRN   07/23/07 04:44 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Badasp   07/23/07 04:33 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness freedom123   07/23/07 04:03 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness PhoenixRising   07/22/07 03:47 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness CiCi   07/22/07 10:57 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness LadyBugRN   07/22/07 08:05 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Badasp   07/22/07 04:22 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness PhoenixRising   07/22/07 05:19 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Badasp   07/22/07 05:36 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness KiwiGirl   07/22/07 03:34 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness LadyBugRN   07/22/07 08:02 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Curmudgeon   07/22/07 11:46 AM
. * * Re: Selfishness LadyBugRN   07/22/07 01:57 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Badasp   07/22/07 02:29 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness LadyBugRN   07/22/07 05:43 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Badasp   07/22/07 06:06 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness LadyBugRN   07/22/07 07:17 PM
. * * I did! Curmudgeon   07/22/07 08:15 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Badasp   07/22/07 07:30 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness LadyBugRN   07/22/07 08:38 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness willybillie   07/22/07 08:53 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Curmudgeon   07/22/07 09:56 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness LadyBugRN   07/22/07 10:04 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness CiCi   07/22/07 10:48 PM
. * * Disappointment! Curmudgeon   07/22/07 11:11 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Badasp   07/22/07 07:49 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Patrice   07/22/07 06:22 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Badasp   07/22/07 06:32 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness willybillie   07/22/07 06:40 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Badasp   07/22/07 07:05 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness 1004SRS   07/22/07 06:39 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Badasp   07/22/07 02:38 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness 1004SRS   07/22/07 01:55 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness LadyBugRN   07/22/07 10:53 AM
. * * Re: Selfishness Karen1   07/22/07 11:32 AM
. * * Re: Selfishness LadyBugRN   07/22/07 01:55 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Sherron   07/22/07 11:48 AM
. * * Re: Selfishness Patrice   07/22/07 12:40 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness Badasp   07/22/07 01:14 PM
. * * Re: Selfishness willybillie   07/22/07 02:02 PM

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