LadyBugRN
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Re: Selfishness
07/22/07 05:43 PM
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Hi Badsap,
I have to agree with the 90% of the time I am okay alone. I've had to get to this place, to survive emotionally. However, for me, I really do want a long-term relationship again. I don't believe in "soul mates" much anymore, that is true. I haven't given up on it all together either. I'm not into one night stands or casual sex, just to have sex. I can see how many do get to that place though, because they don't want to get hurt again. If they don't invest themselves, or their hearts, they must think they are protecting their hearts, but to me, I would think it would be a very empty arrangement. Same must go for men, I'm guessing? Once you've been torn apart from a divorce, it's very hard to trust again. Yet, do any of us really want to spend the rest of our lives not feeling truly loved again, by someone special. I know I don't, but I do hold a lot of fears still too.
Lori
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