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CiCi
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Re: Selfishness

07/22/07 10:57 PM

Phoenix...guilt is an emotion that will serve you no purpose. Trust me, I know - I'm the queen of guilt, I swear!!!

Everyone one of us - the leavers or the leavees have played a roll in what lead to our divorce. I know that I did! Weather or not that hinged on something(s) that he did first is irrelevant (well, kinda irrelevant).

I mean, the real crux of the dilema is that when a problem occurs, we often don't know what to do about it because most of us don't have the <emotional> tools to know how to fix it. I think we can all say that we're so much more knowlegable now since our divorce with all of our "therapy" time (weather on the forum or in a chair), but maybe we didn't always know how to resolve things back then. Maybe our ex's didn't either - well, clearly they didn't.

So....my thought is that for those of us who really dig in and do the post-divorce work, maybe we'll have that chance to employ the knowlege that we've learned through our experiences in a new relationship some day and be more equipped to handle most anything that comes our way. I'd like to think that would be the case.

XOXO
CiCi

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Selfishness	CiCi	07/22/07 09:28 AM
Re: Selfishness	NancyD	07/23/07 07:27 PM
Re: Selfishness	yregna	07/23/07 02:06 PM
Balderdash!	Curmudgeon	07/23/07 07:47 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/23/07 04:44 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/23/07 04:33 PM
Re: Selfishness	freedom123	07/23/07 04:03 PM
Re: Selfishness	PhoenixRising	07/22/07 03:47 PM
Re: Selfishness	CiCi	07/22/07 10:57 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 08:05 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 04:22 PM
Re: Selfishness	PhoenixRising	07/22/07 05:19 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 05:36 PM
Re: Selfishness	KiwiGirl	07/22/07 03:34 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 08:02 PM
Re: Selfishness	Curmudgeon	07/22/07 11:46 AM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 01:57 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 02:29 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 05:43 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 06:06 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 07:17 PM
I did!	Curmudgeon	07/22/07 08:15 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 07:30 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 08:38 PM
Re: Selfishness	willybillie	07/22/07 08:53 PM
Re: Selfishness	Curmudgeon	07/22/07 09:56 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 10:04 PM
Re: Selfishness	CiCi	07/22/07 10:48 PM
Disappointment!	Curmudgeon	07/22/07 11:11 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 07:49 PM
Re: Selfishness	Patrice	07/22/07 06:22 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 06:32 PM
Re: Selfishness	willybillie	07/22/07 06:40 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 07:05 PM
Re: Selfishness	1004SRS	07/22/07 06:39 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 02:38 PM
Re: Selfishness	1004SRS	07/22/07 01:55 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 10:53 AM
Re: Selfishness	Karen1	07/22/07 11:32 AM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 01:55 PM
Re: Selfishness	Sherron	07/22/07 11:48 AM
Re: Selfishness	Patrice	07/22/07 12:40 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 01:14 PM
Re: Selfishness	willybillie	07/22/07 02:02 PM

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